"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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girl wants you so badly...but doesn't trust you

piday314

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You've been playing with an HB's heart for a long time, to the point where she wants you so badly, but doesn't trust you any more. Sometimes you sweet talk her, sometimes you ignore her completely, sometimes you talk **** to her, sometimes you openly talk about your love of other women around her. Now she doesn't know wtf is going on. She just knows she wants you but doesn't trust you at all. How would you proceed?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What exactly does she say to you in your conversations with her?

Right now all you are giving us is your reading of the situation, for us to be of any help we need some summary of what exactly she's said and in what context.
 

RockaRolla25

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Isn't the James Bond/Brad Pitt test applied here?

Do you think a woman would say "I don't trust you" if Brad Pitt or James Bond were in the room with her?

Of course not. She would be like, "Please f.uck me right now until I pass out."
 

PapiChulo

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That's because you talk about the love of other women around you. Decent women need comfort before they open their legs even when they are horny for you.
 

DanelMadr

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And can you blame her, when you act like bipolar attention wh0re?
Playing Games is for girls and the sole reason so many perplexed guys end up in here. Don't play their game and don't play with them.

I assume you trying to seduce a girl, you have mixed feelings about, that's why the inconsistency in your act. Decide. Go for it or get lost and let the poor girl go.

Good luck.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SharinganUser

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Why do you always structure you posts like this? If you want some solid advice, you need to give more information on the situation you are trying to resolve. It doesn't help anyone when you write "I did X, but the she countered with this, so I switched to Y and Z. What's my next move?" It's not a chess game.
 
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