"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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girl wants you so badly...but doesn't trust you

piday314

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You've been playing with an HB's heart for a long time, to the point where she wants you so badly, but doesn't trust you any more. Sometimes you sweet talk her, sometimes you ignore her completely, sometimes you talk **** to her, sometimes you openly talk about your love of other women around her. Now she doesn't know wtf is going on. She just knows she wants you but doesn't trust you at all. How would you proceed?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Real Talk

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What exactly does she say to you in your conversations with her?

Right now all you are giving us is your reading of the situation, for us to be of any help we need some summary of what exactly she's said and in what context.
 

RockaRolla25

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Isn't the James Bond/Brad Pitt test applied here?

Do you think a woman would say "I don't trust you" if Brad Pitt or James Bond were in the room with her?

Of course not. She would be like, "Please f.uck me right now until I pass out."
 

PapiChulo

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Canada, eh?
That's because you talk about the love of other women around you. Decent women need comfort before they open their legs even when they are horny for you.
 

DanelMadr

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And can you blame her, when you act like bipolar attention wh0re?
Playing Games is for girls and the sole reason so many perplexed guys end up in here. Don't play their game and don't play with them.

I assume you trying to seduce a girl, you have mixed feelings about, that's why the inconsistency in your act. Decide. Go for it or get lost and let the poor girl go.

Good luck.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SharinganUser

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Why do you always structure you posts like this? If you want some solid advice, you need to give more information on the situation you are trying to resolve. It doesn't help anyone when you write "I did X, but the she countered with this, so I switched to Y and Z. What's my next move?" It's not a chess game.
 
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