Macking101
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my girlfriend wants to wait till shes 18 to ****, im goin to boot camp soon. how do i get her to give it up before then?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Or you could also just respect that...How old is she right now anyway?Originally posted by b's nuts
does she have any reason, or is it just cuz? you just have to turn her on to the point where she just rips your pants off. If she has an actual reason, then you might need some sort of way around that, I sugges drinking or roofies. No, read in the bible about taking 2 steps forward, 1 step back. For guys to get turned on to want to have sex, its like flipping a light switch and for girls its more like slowly turning up a volume nob, 2 steps forward 1 step back. with this in play she will be so wet, she won't care about waiting until she is 18.
He's 17, he's going to bootcamp, and he obviously wants some pvssy, i say try and fvck her. Thats a good point though, how old is she?Originally posted by crazykid
Or you could also just respect that...How old is she right now anyway?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
casually mention to her that you are looking forward to boot camp because you've always had an interest in guys and you are questioning your sexual preference. Then laugh nervously and say just kidding, but stare off into space.Originally posted by Macking101
my girlfriend wants to wait till shes 18 to ****, im goin to boot camp soon. how do i get her to give it up before then?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Originally posted by Macking101
Im joining the army national guard. The thing is, she turns 18 next february, i know im ****y but ive never had to wait more than 1 month for *****. We've been together 3 months