"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Macking101

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my girlfriend wants to wait till shes 18 to ****, im goin to boot camp soon. how do i get her to give it up before then?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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b's nuts

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does she have any reason, or is it just cuz? you just have to turn her on to the point where she just rips your pants off. If she has an actual reason, then you might need some sort of way around that, I sugges drinking or roofies:eek: . No, read in the bible about taking 2 steps forward, 1 step back. For guys to get turned on to want to have sex, its like flipping a light switch and for girls its more like slowly turning up a volume nob, 2 steps forward 1 step back. with this in play she will be so wet, she won't care about waiting until she is 18.
 

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Originally posted by b's nuts
does she have any reason, or is it just cuz? you just have to turn her on to the point where she just rips your pants off. If she has an actual reason, then you might need some sort of way around that, I sugges drinking or roofies:eek: . No, read in the bible about taking 2 steps forward, 1 step back. For guys to get turned on to want to have sex, its like flipping a light switch and for girls its more like slowly turning up a volume nob, 2 steps forward 1 step back. with this in play she will be so wet, she won't care about waiting until she is 18.
Or you could also just respect that...How old is she right now anyway?
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Or you could also just respect that...How old is she right now anyway?
He's 17, he's going to bootcamp, and he obviously wants some pvssy, i say try and fvck her. Thats a good point though, how old is she?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im joining the army national guard. The thing is, she turns 18 next february, i know im ****y but ive never had to wait more than 1 month for *****. We've been together 3 months
 

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The last girl ive hooked up with waited till she was 18(3months or so ago) and now shes dishing it out to any tom,**** or harry who crosses her line of sight.

Loosing it at 18, in my opinion, means nothing.
 

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Well, if she is under age forget it. You don't need jail time.

Anyways, there are lots of women who will give it to you without making you beg like a dog - which is most likely your problem to begin with. Remember, you don't need her. She needs you. So don't beg her for it. You can get even better ***** elsewhere without giving up your pride.

Besides, aren't there women in the army too, or have I seen too much M*A*S*H?!

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Originally posted by Macking101
my girlfriend wants to wait till shes 18 to ****, im goin to boot camp soon. how do i get her to give it up before then?
casually mention to her that you are looking forward to boot camp because you've always had an interest in guys and you are questioning your sexual preference. Then laugh nervously and say just kidding, but stare off into space.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Macking101
Im joining the army national guard. The thing is, she turns 18 next february, i know im ****y but ive never had to wait more than 1 month for *****. We've been together 3 months

Ahhhh my boyfriend is in the army national guard. He loves it. Only thing is, are you prepared to be shipped off to Kosovo, Iraq, Afghanistan or Korea? Then you cant get p*ssy for over a year! haha. Anyways, boot camp is only like 3 or 4 months and AIT training (at least for my bf) was like another two i think.

But if you wait, just imagine how explosive and awesome and earth-shattering its gonna be if you wait until you're out of basic and in *awesome* shape. She'll want to rip your clothes off.



>>>>Oh and Spike, do you know that there is another member here called "spike_thA_cowboy"????? just thought i'd let ya know.
 

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Yeah, Luv. I noticed. D@mn copycat's!

I guess I should be flattered?...

LoL~

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