"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girl wants to come over and just sleep...

powpow

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so in continuation from this thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=189903&highlight=stealing


We have been flirting pretty heavily. She invites me to come visit her in her dreams. start talking about dream adventures.

anyway, its getting cold, and I move the conversation to sleep buddies.

shes in a long term, long distance relationship.

long story short, she wants to come over and just be my sleep buddy tomorrow night.

she gave me a major **** test tho. busted right threw it.

anyway... you think she really wants to just sleep? flirting and all I think she wants it... but just has that ASD flaring up and wants me to make the move.

what do you think my brothers?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Htienvu

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lol... no such thing as sleep buddies, time to get some CDs.
 

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I'd say go for it. Escalating in these situations is easy, at least for me.

If I got this from a girl I would have seen it as her blatantly inviting herself to my house to get railed.
 

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Could be she doesn't want to initiate the sex, so that she can't be at fault. It was all you. Blah blah.

Alternative: wanting a cuddle buddy for the affection she can't get from him; using you as a pseudo-boyfriend to fill the voids, and receiving attention in the process.

Whatever you do, I guess. Had a girl want this before, in the same situation. Just kept saying no, and to leave me alone.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i assure you it's possible lol i know all too well.


when i was single i had a 10 oclock rule. if you were a female, and you came over my house after 10pm, you are acknowledge the fact that i'm going to try to fvck you. that's just that. i may or may not succeed, but damit if you walk in my house at 10pm i am on the attack.

lol my old oneitis even used to joke around "i would stop by but it's 10:30"
 

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She is setting you up so she can make a false rape accusation against you. You'll deny it, but then admit to the judge you and her slept together. This is a hot potatoe.
 

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I'd go and casually strip naked before bed "Oh, didnt I tell you? I sleep in the nude"

It's go time...
 
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