"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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girl wants to come over and just sleep...

powpow

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so in continuation from this thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=189903&highlight=stealing


We have been flirting pretty heavily. She invites me to come visit her in her dreams. start talking about dream adventures.

anyway, its getting cold, and I move the conversation to sleep buddies.

shes in a long term, long distance relationship.

long story short, she wants to come over and just be my sleep buddy tomorrow night.

she gave me a major **** test tho. busted right threw it.

anyway... you think she really wants to just sleep? flirting and all I think she wants it... but just has that ASD flaring up and wants me to make the move.

what do you think my brothers?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Htienvu

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lol... no such thing as sleep buddies, time to get some CDs.
 

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I'd say go for it. Escalating in these situations is easy, at least for me.

If I got this from a girl I would have seen it as her blatantly inviting herself to my house to get railed.
 

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Could be she doesn't want to initiate the sex, so that she can't be at fault. It was all you. Blah blah.

Alternative: wanting a cuddle buddy for the affection she can't get from him; using you as a pseudo-boyfriend to fill the voids, and receiving attention in the process.

Whatever you do, I guess. Had a girl want this before, in the same situation. Just kept saying no, and to leave me alone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i assure you it's possible lol i know all too well.


when i was single i had a 10 oclock rule. if you were a female, and you came over my house after 10pm, you are acknowledge the fact that i'm going to try to fvck you. that's just that. i may or may not succeed, but damit if you walk in my house at 10pm i am on the attack.

lol my old oneitis even used to joke around "i would stop by but it's 10:30"
 

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She is setting you up so she can make a false rape accusation against you. You'll deny it, but then admit to the judge you and her slept together. This is a hot potatoe.
 

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I'd go and casually strip naked before bed "Oh, didnt I tell you? I sleep in the nude"

It's go time...
 
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