"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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girl wants to come over and just sleep...

powpow

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so in continuation from this thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=189903&highlight=stealing


We have been flirting pretty heavily. She invites me to come visit her in her dreams. start talking about dream adventures.

anyway, its getting cold, and I move the conversation to sleep buddies.

shes in a long term, long distance relationship.

long story short, she wants to come over and just be my sleep buddy tomorrow night.

she gave me a major **** test tho. busted right threw it.

anyway... you think she really wants to just sleep? flirting and all I think she wants it... but just has that ASD flaring up and wants me to make the move.

what do you think my brothers?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Htienvu

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lol... no such thing as sleep buddies, time to get some CDs.
 

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I'd say go for it. Escalating in these situations is easy, at least for me.

If I got this from a girl I would have seen it as her blatantly inviting herself to my house to get railed.
 

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Could be she doesn't want to initiate the sex, so that she can't be at fault. It was all you. Blah blah.

Alternative: wanting a cuddle buddy for the affection she can't get from him; using you as a pseudo-boyfriend to fill the voids, and receiving attention in the process.

Whatever you do, I guess. Had a girl want this before, in the same situation. Just kept saying no, and to leave me alone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i assure you it's possible lol i know all too well.


when i was single i had a 10 oclock rule. if you were a female, and you came over my house after 10pm, you are acknowledge the fact that i'm going to try to fvck you. that's just that. i may or may not succeed, but damit if you walk in my house at 10pm i am on the attack.

lol my old oneitis even used to joke around "i would stop by but it's 10:30"
 

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She is setting you up so she can make a false rape accusation against you. You'll deny it, but then admit to the judge you and her slept together. This is a hot potatoe.
 

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I'd go and casually strip naked before bed "Oh, didnt I tell you? I sleep in the nude"

It's go time...
 
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