"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl want to record the sex!!!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Thank me later.
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No. But I'm too clever to allow a chick to record me and my weewee forever. I learn vicariously through the errors of others.Trapper said:
Take my advice though or you'll regret it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
. Most girls share about everything with their friends, btw. Id be a bit cautious about it.
spider_007
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That's a good thing, if your confident in bed, then you just might end up with her friends hitting on you for some lovin'GamePlan said:
SamRi72
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Trust me you don't want to do this.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Gangster Of Love
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She is being kinky. The more she's into you the easier it will be to get everything your way when it comes to making a tape.st_99 said:
I've made tapes with two babes before. I made three with the first one, she suggested it every time and didn't even want a copy or mind if I kept it. Every now and then she'll ask me about it. We are no longer involved.
The second gir, I took some shots of her our first night together with my cell phone. Next time I just pulled out the video camera and set up the tripod and started taping. She didn't ask for the tape either.
Stay tune for my book and cd program on how to do your own productions. :rock:
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Anybody have the link to the video of the guy who gets caught by the girl he's trying to record? Haha.Last Man Standing said:
He had the camera in the TV stand where the VCR goes, had the camera facing the main sofa accross, and she saw the light and started freaking out.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I thought I was being clever and had the Video camera all set up before we started, but forgot about the red flashing light. Luckily she just laughed and adjusted the room lighting before we continued. No big deal, have fun.Trapper said:
Make sure you have a copy of the video, and not just her. If you don't look good, make another video.
As long as you don't care who views it, she can't blackmail you with it. Hard to blackmail you with something you are proud to show. Who cares if you are seen in a video banging the snot out of your girl anyway?
Send one copy to his place of employment, one copy to his mom, and one copy to the girl he is currently banging and loves him to death. I am sure he will care then.Crank_It_Up said:
When a woman scorned she can become revengful, its best to leave as little or anything behind.
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good point, make sure to say hi mom during the videoDJDamage said:
I still say if you look good in the video, who cares if she makes a million copies?
Recently I was headed to the bedroom with this chick, and she tells me to grab my camera. Uh.....OK!!! I snapped a few shots of her, no big deal.
She asked me the next day what I was going to do with the pictures, if I was going to show them to all of my friends or something. I told her I'm not like that, and asked her what I was SUPPOSED to do with them. She said she wanted me to whack off to them...hehe. Guess she gets off at the thought of someone getting off to her pics.
She didn't ask for copies or tell me to delete them, so I guess it's no big deal to her. Fine by me!
Personally though, I would NEVER let anything with my face in it get out. Just for sh!ts and giggles I sent a pic of my lower half to this one chick I banged a couple of times, but nothing that would identify me. That's about as far as I will let it go with images of me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.