You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No. But I'm too clever to allow a chick to record me and my weewee forever. I learn vicariously through the errors of others.Trapper said:been there KarmaSutra? and she is saying that she just wanna have it, and dont wanna give it to me..
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That's a good thing, if your confident in bed, then you just might end up with her friends hitting on you for some lovin'GamePlan said:Most girls share about everything with their friends, btw. Id be a bit cautious about it.
are you stupid?Trapper said:been there KarmaSutra? and she is saying that she just wanna have it, and dont wanna give it to me..
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She is being kinky. The more she's into you the easier it will be to get everything your way when it comes to making a tape.st_99 said:I think she's just beeing kinky... she wants to keep it because the girls biggest fear is YOU showing other people the tape if you break up or whatever. I wouldnt worry about HER showing it to other people because no one cares about seeing you have sex, she would be more effected by it than you ever could be. Do you really think she wants other random people watching her have sex?
Anybody have the link to the video of the guy who gets caught by the girl he's trying to record? Haha.Last Man Standing said:Don't be a fool! She probably has been recording you already!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
i know I haveLast Man Standing said:Don't be a fool! She probably has been recording you already!
I thought I was being clever and had the Video camera all set up before we started, but forgot about the red flashing light. Luckily she just laughed and adjusted the room lighting before we continued. No big deal, have fun.Trapper said:Hey guys;
hope all u r doing well and pimping... the girl im with currently want to record our making love and she want to keep it with her..
have you ever experienced this kind of thing before? how does it feel?
Send one copy to his place of employment, one copy to his mom, and one copy to the girl he is currently banging and loves him to death. I am sure he will care then.Crank_It_Up said:Who cares if you are seen in a video banging the snot out of your girl anyway?
good point, make sure to say hi mom during the videoDJDamage said:Send one copy to his place of employment, one copy to his mom, and one copy to the girl he is currently banging and loves him to death. I am sure he will care then.
When a woman scorned she can become revengful, its best to leave as little or anything behind.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.