Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No. But I'm too clever to allow a chick to record me and my weewee forever. I learn vicariously through the errors of others.Trapper said:been there KarmaSutra? and she is saying that she just wanna have it, and dont wanna give it to me..
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That's a good thing, if your confident in bed, then you just might end up with her friends hitting on you for some lovin'GamePlan said:Most girls share about everything with their friends, btw. Id be a bit cautious about it.
are you stupid?Trapper said:been there KarmaSutra? and she is saying that she just wanna have it, and dont wanna give it to me..
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She is being kinky. The more she's into you the easier it will be to get everything your way when it comes to making a tape.st_99 said:I think she's just beeing kinky... she wants to keep it because the girls biggest fear is YOU showing other people the tape if you break up or whatever. I wouldnt worry about HER showing it to other people because no one cares about seeing you have sex, she would be more effected by it than you ever could be. Do you really think she wants other random people watching her have sex?
Anybody have the link to the video of the guy who gets caught by the girl he's trying to record? Haha.Last Man Standing said:Don't be a fool! She probably has been recording you already!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i know I haveLast Man Standing said:Don't be a fool! She probably has been recording you already!
I thought I was being clever and had the Video camera all set up before we started, but forgot about the red flashing light. Luckily she just laughed and adjusted the room lighting before we continued. No big deal, have fun.Trapper said:Hey guys;
hope all u r doing well and pimping... the girl im with currently want to record our making love and she want to keep it with her..
have you ever experienced this kind of thing before? how does it feel?
Send one copy to his place of employment, one copy to his mom, and one copy to the girl he is currently banging and loves him to death. I am sure he will care then.Crank_It_Up said:Who cares if you are seen in a video banging the snot out of your girl anyway?
good point, make sure to say hi mom during the videoDJDamage said:Send one copy to his place of employment, one copy to his mom, and one copy to the girl he is currently banging and loves him to death. I am sure he will care then.
When a woman scorned she can become revengful, its best to leave as little or anything behind.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.