"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl want to meet up, But she want me to walk to her, then walk back?

aznxboi

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When a girl thats interest in you, tells you to meet her at somewhere but you dont want to walk there, and you want her to just meet at your house instead, how should you say it? I ready told her to stop being lazy, and just walk to my house. Since the place, she meetin me at is only 3 blocks away from my house. She keep saying, she scared this and that. But I dont want to walk 3 blocks to get her, which it seem like when say something I do. Is there any way, playing it out? at these kinda situation?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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icallug

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why dont u stop being lazy and just go ****ing get her for christs sake...
 

wcknightjr

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What's more important to you. Not walking 3 blocks, or havin a chance at punanneh.

Remember, she wants a MAN, not a boy who can't walk three blocks.

Also the extra distance gives you more time to talk with her while you two are walking.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Steven Seagal

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u should take ur RAZOR scooter. It will make the distance seem shorter.

plus chix love guys on wheels
 

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by wcknightjr
Remember, she wants a MAN, not a boy who can't walk three blocks.
Shut the **** up.
 
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