"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl want to meet up, But she want me to walk to her, then walk back?

aznxboi

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When a girl thats interest in you, tells you to meet her at somewhere but you dont want to walk there, and you want her to just meet at your house instead, how should you say it? I ready told her to stop being lazy, and just walk to my house. Since the place, she meetin me at is only 3 blocks away from my house. She keep saying, she scared this and that. But I dont want to walk 3 blocks to get her, which it seem like when say something I do. Is there any way, playing it out? at these kinda situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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icallug

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why dont u stop being lazy and just go ****ing get her for christs sake...
 

wcknightjr

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What's more important to you. Not walking 3 blocks, or havin a chance at punanneh.

Remember, she wants a MAN, not a boy who can't walk three blocks.

Also the extra distance gives you more time to talk with her while you two are walking.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Steven Seagal

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u should take ur RAZOR scooter. It will make the distance seem shorter.

plus chix love guys on wheels
 

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by wcknightjr
Remember, she wants a MAN, not a boy who can't walk three blocks.
Shut the **** up.
 
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