"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl want to meet up, But she want me to walk to her, then walk back?

aznxboi

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When a girl thats interest in you, tells you to meet her at somewhere but you dont want to walk there, and you want her to just meet at your house instead, how should you say it? I ready told her to stop being lazy, and just walk to my house. Since the place, she meetin me at is only 3 blocks away from my house. She keep saying, she scared this and that. But I dont want to walk 3 blocks to get her, which it seem like when say something I do. Is there any way, playing it out? at these kinda situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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icallug

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why dont u stop being lazy and just go ****ing get her for christs sake...
 

wcknightjr

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What's more important to you. Not walking 3 blocks, or havin a chance at punanneh.

Remember, she wants a MAN, not a boy who can't walk three blocks.

Also the extra distance gives you more time to talk with her while you two are walking.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Steven Seagal

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u should take ur RAZOR scooter. It will make the distance seem shorter.

plus chix love guys on wheels
 

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by wcknightjr
Remember, she wants a MAN, not a boy who can't walk three blocks.
Shut the **** up.
 
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