"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girl w/ bf gives me her #

sbgm

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Met this girl at a party tonight friday we talked and had a really good time and within 5 minutes of meeting her, she touched me (kino) she told me she had a bf who was goin to work abroad for a year. When she left we hugged for a very long time and she gave me her #. What does this mean, should I go for it even though she has a bf?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Young OG

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It's up to you. I personally don't pursue women with boyfriends. I often get numbers from women with boyfriends and when I find out they have one, I delete the number. Sometimes they tell me before I get the number and sometimes after. Remember, if she's going to cheat on her boyfriend, she's not relationship material. She can't be trusted.
 

marmel75

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She is going to need some c0ck from somewhere when the boyfriend is gone...
 

devilkingx2

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i'd stay away from girls with bfs. it's morally wrong, bad karma, bad ethics, and dangerous because her bf and his friends may beat the crap out of you.

i'd be more worried about the morals tbh, i'd rather be able to call myself a good person than get some slvt's pvssy.

although if she lies about her bf or omits details then it's not your fault if you bang her.
 
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