"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl w/ bf gives me her #

sbgm

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Met this girl at a party tonight friday we talked and had a really good time and within 5 minutes of meeting her, she touched me (kino) she told me she had a bf who was goin to work abroad for a year. When she left we hugged for a very long time and she gave me her #. What does this mean, should I go for it even though she has a bf?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Young OG

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It's up to you. I personally don't pursue women with boyfriends. I often get numbers from women with boyfriends and when I find out they have one, I delete the number. Sometimes they tell me before I get the number and sometimes after. Remember, if she's going to cheat on her boyfriend, she's not relationship material. She can't be trusted.
 

marmel75

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She is going to need some c0ck from somewhere when the boyfriend is gone...
 

devilkingx2

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i'd stay away from girls with bfs. it's morally wrong, bad karma, bad ethics, and dangerous because her bf and his friends may beat the crap out of you.

i'd be more worried about the morals tbh, i'd rather be able to call myself a good person than get some slvt's pvssy.

although if she lies about her bf or omits details then it's not your fault if you bang her.
 
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