Girl using BPD as an excuse?

[summersky]

Meet a girl, had one date. She seemed very interested, said i am totally her type and asked a lot of questions. Flaked on me before the second date but counteroffered another one. Flaked on that, too! Then talked to me and explained that she has BPD and is going through a bad time right now. From the way she talked about it, I believe her, I normally would recognize when someone is lying. She told me that her mood changed and she doesnt want to date anymore. She dont want to hurt me and effect me with her ill condition.

I believe that she is ill but could it really be the only reason she doesnt want to date? Or is she just using her illness as an excuse? How can i find out?

I would be happy about every opinion!

 

[Malcontent]

Move on.


It doesn't matter if she is lying or telling the truth.

Either way it should be a deal breaker. Option 1: Liar. Option 2: BPD. Both not worth your time.

PS: Age is required in your profile to post in Mature Man.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Moved to General Discussion. No age in profile.

OP, are you sure she didn't say "Bipolar Disease"? I've noticed that women with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) almost never admit that diagnosis, but plenty of them say they're "bipolar".

 

[GS750]

Friendzone her. Maybe you'll get some FWB play but don't get into a relationship with her, whether she'd BPD or Bipolar you want no part of that.

 

[summersky]

I am sure she said bpd. Friendzone her? I would like to lay her since she is very hot but the thing is, she dont wanna go out anymore.. Guess there is nothing I can do to lay her anyway?