B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I want her to know she didn't hurt me. I gave her ego a stroking. How do I undo this?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girl thinks she hurt me by breaking up with me?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
No I must change her mind. Maybe say something like "just wanted you to know you didn't hurt me. I just wanted to let you know what was going on with me at the time and that's why the relationship didn't work. Wish you the best."
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
She just can't think this. Do you guys think I'll be making an idiot out of myself by telling her she didn't hurt me?
MoreThanSmooth
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Say that if it makes you feel better, then move on. Don't get drawn into a protracted exchange of words with her, you'll just leave it feeling s***.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Why did she even say it in the first place?
MoreThanSmooth
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Probably cared about you dude, didn't want you upset that you broke up. Most women are highly emotional creatures, and are sometimes over-sensitive to emotion.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
in that case maybe I should let it be.
no alpha would say that. actually thats omega. just block her and forget
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
such a pity I ****ed up with this girl...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
where do I even get it?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
There's nothing to say. Move on.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Next her. Get off phaggotry times. Go get more babes. Best way to get "even:" is to get under hotter/thinner/younger women on top form SMV. No better way to troll said woman. Mental masturbating and talking about feelers is just painting yourself as the beta cuck she fortunately finished.
No sweeter feel in this world then running into a train wreck from the past with a girl who just turned 18 around your arm. LULZ be had. Bishs be raging. Jimmies be rustled.
marmel75
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Who cares? Find something important to do in your life. Clearly that is sorely lacking if you time to come up with this...but I guess your username should have given it away.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
You have to understand that I'm mild aspergers and severely bipolar. My mental disorders ruin all of my relationships. It's very frustrating and that's why I vent on this forum. I do go to school and have career goals so I'm not a total loser
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
beta cuck she fortuately finished? Wtf does that mean and I'm not beta cause I have depression anxiety self esteem issues. All of my mistakes stem from my mental problems. That's why they're so hard to learn from.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Move on... I wouldn't have to if I didn't **** up
Glassguy
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Da fuq?
You can't change a girls mind after she dumps you.
Move on. We all get that you fvcked up. Learn from it. Nothing that you actively do to try and change her mind will have any positive impact, only negative.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.