"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl tells me to call and never picks up

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I said I didn't have her number so she gave me it and says "well now you do. so call it."

I called last week. No answer. ok, she's busy. I figure I'll call her today and she what she's up to. she doesn't pick up.

wtf is the point of telling me to call if she's never going to pick up/return the calls? I didn't leave a message either time cuz she has my number so she'd know I called.

should I squash it or try to call her sometime next week? normally i don't care, but she told me to call. though, her not picking up is making me feel like "that guy" that calls 100 times that she has to avoid
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this cell phones or house?

It's entirley your choice, but the fact is, she's not answering you, so, as I see it, you've got two options.

1) Sack her off as a learning experience. If she's interested, she'll call back.

2) Call her one more time, and this time leave a message. If she calls back, great, if she doesn't, great.

I know which I'd pick.

Good luck son.
 
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What's the difference between getting a cell or a house number from a HS girl? Just wondering ..
 
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faiNt` said:
What's the difference between getting a cell or a house number from a HS girl? Just wondering ..
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I forgot to follow that up.

I was going to say, if it was a cell, send a text message saying "Hey, I called you and you wern't around, call me back". That way, the ball is in her court, its upto her to make the next move.
 
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It's her cell.

There is always the chance she doesn't have my number. We kind of fell out of touch for a while so it's 50/50.

A text would probably be the better option.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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