Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl tells me to call and never picks up

Wolve

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I said I didn't have her number so she gave me it and says "well now you do. so call it."

I called last week. No answer. ok, she's busy. I figure I'll call her today and she what she's up to. she doesn't pick up.

wtf is the point of telling me to call if she's never going to pick up/return the calls? I didn't leave a message either time cuz she has my number so she'd know I called.

should I squash it or try to call her sometime next week? normally i don't care, but she told me to call. though, her not picking up is making me feel like "that guy" that calls 100 times that she has to avoid
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WesCottII

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Is this cell phones or house?

It's entirley your choice, but the fact is, she's not answering you, so, as I see it, you've got two options.

1) Sack her off as a learning experience. If she's interested, she'll call back.

2) Call her one more time, and this time leave a message. If she calls back, great, if she doesn't, great.

I know which I'd pick.

Good luck son.
 

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What's the difference between getting a cell or a house number from a HS girl? Just wondering ..
 

WesCottII

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faiNt` said:
What's the difference between getting a cell or a house number from a HS girl? Just wondering ..

I forgot to follow that up.

I was going to say, if it was a cell, send a text message saying "Hey, I called you and you wern't around, call me back". That way, the ball is in her court, its upto her to make the next move.
 

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It's her cell.

There is always the chance she doesn't have my number. We kind of fell out of touch for a while so it's 50/50.

A text would probably be the better option.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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