"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl tells me to call and never picks up

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I said I didn't have her number so she gave me it and says "well now you do. so call it."

I called last week. No answer. ok, she's busy. I figure I'll call her today and she what she's up to. she doesn't pick up.

wtf is the point of telling me to call if she's never going to pick up/return the calls? I didn't leave a message either time cuz she has my number so she'd know I called.

should I squash it or try to call her sometime next week? normally i don't care, but she told me to call. though, her not picking up is making me feel like "that guy" that calls 100 times that she has to avoid
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WesCottII

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Is this cell phones or house?

It's entirley your choice, but the fact is, she's not answering you, so, as I see it, you've got two options.

1) Sack her off as a learning experience. If she's interested, she'll call back.

2) Call her one more time, and this time leave a message. If she calls back, great, if she doesn't, great.

I know which I'd pick.

Good luck son.
 

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What's the difference between getting a cell or a house number from a HS girl? Just wondering ..
 

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faiNt` said:
What's the difference between getting a cell or a house number from a HS girl? Just wondering ..

I forgot to follow that up.

I was going to say, if it was a cell, send a text message saying "Hey, I called you and you wern't around, call me back". That way, the ball is in her court, its upto her to make the next move.
 

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It's her cell.

There is always the chance she doesn't have my number. We kind of fell out of touch for a while so it's 50/50.

A text would probably be the better option.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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