"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl still don't have her period 2 months already..

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i'm f#cked..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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anybody?
 
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shes going tomorrow..damn, i'll never have sex w/o condom ever again
 
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We're here dude,but what do you expect us to say?

You said that she hasn't had a period in two months. I see only four possibilties:

1:She has some sort of medical issue.

2:She's pre-pubesent,meaning she haven't reached puberty yet. In that case,SHAME on you!

3:She's post menopausaul. Gross!!

4:She's pregnant. In that case,CONGRATULATIONS!!! You're a father!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Push her down some stairs.
 
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Igetit! said:
We're here dude,but what do you expect us to say?
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You're right,

- he does NOT expect keyboard jockeys like you to say anything, for obvious reasons. So you souldn't GIVE ADVICE ON **** YOU DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not a good sign. Hopefully, its a girl you really like. If she is pregnat whether you keep the baby or not is up to you two.
 
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Fock those guys....as a father, life goes on after kids. Kids are great. It's their mothers that's the problem.

Does she have medical issues? On birth control? Under lots of stress?

Is she dating anyone else? Do you even suspect she might be? DNA test before you sign a birth certificate.

If you aren't going to marry her, don't pretend to. Tell her that you will be there for her and the baby. There will be some bull**** to deal with if you choose not to marry her. If she is low class she will be vindictive and use the baby as a weapon to punish you. I she's a decent girl and honest about herself, her feelings, the situation and circumstance...she may act like a halfway decent person about it all.

Good luck man. If its yours and you need advice i would suggest posting in the mature man forum on this topic.
 
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Fock those guys....as a father, life goes on after kids. Kids are great. It's their mothers that's the problem.

Does she have medical issues? On birth control? Under lots of stress?

Is she dating anyone else? Do you even suspect she might be? DNA test before you sign a birth certificate.

If you aren't going to marry her, don't pretend to. Tell her that you will be there for her and the baby. There will be some bull**** to deal with if you choose not to marry her. If she is low class she will be vindictive and use the baby as a weapon to punish you. I she's a decent girl and honest about herself, her feelings, the situation and circumstance...she may act like a halfway decent person about it all.

Good luck man. If its yours and you need advice i would suggest posting in the mature man forum on this topic.
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Best advice i've heard on the subject in a good while.

i'd rep you but it says i "need to spread more" :p
 
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One of my female friends is on some sort of birth control and only gets her period twice a year (from what she says). Maybe this girl is on the same or a similar thing?

Just thought of it as a possibility that hasn't been posted yet in the thread.
 
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One of my female friends is on some sort of birth control and only gets her period twice a year (from what she says). Maybe this girl is on the same or a similar thing?

Just thought of it as a possibility that hasn't been posted yet in the thread.
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Yeah that plastic Y shaped thing.

I dont think there would be an issue if she was using that type of contraceptive... he did say they had unprotected sex.

Sorry dude good luck and congratulations on your new kid.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You definitely should have her do a preggo test. Don't consider yourself a father just yet. I've had 3 scares such as this in my life, none of which resulted in kids. One chick in HS I boned was 2 weeks late. Another one I was seeing who I didn't want a kid with was 6 weeks late, but she finally did start ragging. Another one I did knock up but she miscarried, and no, I didn't have to push her down the steps :D Womens' bodies are complicated. So don't assume she is preggo just yet.. On the other hand, preggo tests are pretty damn accurate so if that says you are a daddy then chances are you are. good luck man.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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