Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
We're here dude,but what do you expect us to say?vagrant said:anybody?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Igetit! said:We're here dude,but what do you expect us to say?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Best advice i've heard on the subject in a good while.Warrior74 said:Fock those guys....as a father, life goes on after kids. Kids are great. It's their mothers that's the problem.
Does she have medical issues? On birth control? Under lots of stress?
Is she dating anyone else? Do you even suspect she might be? DNA test before you sign a birth certificate.
If you aren't going to marry her, don't pretend to. Tell her that you will be there for her and the baby. There will be some bull**** to deal with if you choose not to marry her. If she is low class she will be vindictive and use the baby as a weapon to punish you. I she's a decent girl and honest about herself, her feelings, the situation and circumstance...she may act like a halfway decent person about it all.
Good luck man. If its yours and you need advice i would suggest posting in the mature man forum on this topic.
Yeah that plastic Y shaped thing.One of my female friends is on some sort of birth control and only gets her period twice a year (from what she says). Maybe this girl is on the same or a similar thing?
Just thought of it as a possibility that hasn't been posted yet in the thread.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I second thislogicallefty said:push her down the steps![]()
Condoms cut of the blood flow!Dannyrt34 said:seriously what makes everyone think having sex without a condom worth the risk
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.