"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl spits a load into my laundry.....

Game617

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Ok. This girl and I are fooling around. She blows me, gets up, then goes over to my laundry and spits a load into my laundry basket. Inside a towel. I told her she had to leave...she get's all mad and says it's over. Am I wrong here? Or is that not completely disrespectful?

The girl has swallowed before. Instead this time she tells me she "had a hair" and had to do it. We were pretty much broken up at the time anyways. She texted me saying never to contact her again. That I'm this and I'm that. How asking her to leave was very hurtful. And it's over. Do you think I should apologize if I hurt her feelings?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ricodragos

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... well good luck finding another swallower

PS: its called laundry for a reason ..... u are supposed to wash those anyway ... to much drama from ur side:(
 

Who Dares Win

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Man ,its hard enough to find a girl which regularly blows you and sometime swallows, let alone one which goes till the toilet to spit.

Hell I had girls spitting it on my chest right after...what I was supposed to do, perform a belly to back supplex?
 

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Sounds like you are mad that she didn't swallow rather than the fact that she spit in your laundry.

If that's your dirty laundry basket and she spit in a towl, wtf is actually wrong?
 

Fly By Night

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She probably does not like/trust you enough to swallow. Be happy she didn't spit it in the middle of your bed or on your desk.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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VladPatton

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...or in your milk carton
 

Young Juan

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If I didn't like it I would chewed her out, told her she can't do that anymore, ensure she understands and left it at that.

Now that you went so far in one direction, I would let her come back to me
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sarcastic sam

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OP, next time a girl disrespects you like that you punch the inconsiderate wh0r right in the face and tell her to get fvck out of your place and that she's NEVER gonna suck your d1ck again!
 

foreverAFC

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she just gave you head, who cares if one of your towels got dirty
 

VladPatton

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Now you gotta deal with 2 loads!
 

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When you really think about it and envision it happening, it really is pretty weird to think of her going over to the laundry basket and spitting out into his laundry. How much farther is the sink?

This was probably very out of the ordinary and fairly alarming to the OP.

I have a sneaking suspicion is that this is one of many questionable ways she has of looking at her dealings with the OP. There is usually more lying under the surface of any story (and any towel).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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georgetheman

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You seem a little crazy I dont blame her for doing what she did. If I dated a girl who flipped out over every little thing Id do the same
 

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LOL, that doesn't happen in my world. I've never had a girl decide not to. A pair of your underwear? :crackup:

I think I might start producing a modern-day spitoon for today's discriminating gentleman.
 

btownbuck2012

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I would have slapped the ***** across her face. I know a-lot of you think I'm lying and wouldn't actually do that. That's fine.
 

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if that happened to me. i would laugh my ass off. the amount of times i've used old clothes lying on the floor as a *** rang when i am with a girl is OVER 9000!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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