theirs a girl beind my french class who is mad fun she pokes my bak with her foot when im sittin down i grab her leg and she laughd i was wonderin wat else could i do with her during class like wat kind od kino could i do since she sits behind
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Originally posted by LikRetsam
Out of class, not in class.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your post implied that it was not light sporadic flirting.. then what was it?Originally posted by AFK Protector
I DJed this girl in class today. A whole bunch guys were just like looking at us, but the teach cut it off. So don't DJ in class...unless it's like light sporadic flirting.
hmm... from what i was told in the bible, it is suppposed to be on all the time, not just when convenient?????Originally posted by LikRetsam
Out of class, not in class.
As far as this goes: It wouldnt be very DJish to piss of whole class or teacher by talking at inconvenient times. But it would be DJish if you kept your kept your back straight, kept good posture and looked confident.Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
hmm... from what i was told in the bible, it is suppposed to be on all the time, not just when convenient?????
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I believe that there is. For example if the teacher assigns the whole class to do work and the whole class is doing work it would not be very considerate to start talking to a person behind you. If the teacher is giving notes and you are talking its also rude. Then again if your the type who never tries at school and doesnt give a fvck then talk your ass off in class. If the rest of the class feels the same way then talk and talk. I just dont think it would be very respectful.Originally posted by JSH
so what xomel, inconvenient times, there is no such thing. You play when your ready, but take the flak for it if the teacher starts having a go at her.
woops, ive done this many times in class. course, when you got 62 students in a class....Originally posted by xomel
If the tteacher is teaching and requires your attention, dont fool around.
**** load of kino. I sat in front, and she kept tapping my ass with her foot, so I grabbed both legs, started rubbing, and suddenly pulled her down in her seat from the front. her flip flips flew off, so the teacher noticed lol.Originally posted by cant think of a user name
Your post implied that it was not light sporadic flirting.. then what was it?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.