Girl scratched her skin off.

[darktranquilo]

This girl I'd been smashing scratched her skin off during an argument.
Another time she did it for fun and showed me the bandages during sex.
Can anyone experienced tell me what's this all about?

 

[QuadDeuces]

It means you should run.
Major red flag for borderline or other forms of psychopathy.
Any other red flags you felt in your gut?

 

[sazc]

RUN!
If you really need more info, Google it.

DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT attempt to white knight this. Only a licensed professional can help her.

Just stop contact.

 

[darktranquilo]

It means you should run.
Major red flag for borderline or other forms of psychopathy.
Any other red flags you felt in your gut?

Dyed hair, tattoos, piercings

Divorced parents

Lots of guy friends

No close set of girlfriends, gets very close to one and drops them soon

Saw her sister beat walls, getting bruised and posting pics. Apparently she's joined some martial arts

 

[Urbanyst]

She needs professional help.

Clearly she has inner demons she is dealing with.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Dyed hair, tattoos, piercings

Divorced parents

Lots of guy friends

No close set of girlfriends, gets very close to one and drops them soon

Saw her sister beat walls, getting bruised and posting pics. Apparently she's joined some martial arts

Major red flags.
Be careful, after the honeymoon the shyt will progressively get worse, first they build you up like a king, and then they will tear you down and spit you out. They also cheat non stop, and lie.
In the end they will humiliate you as you are burnt to pieces.

It's essential you study borderline personality disorder (BPD), there are numerous topics about the disorder on this site.
This is no joke, BPD is a cluster B personality disorder, closely related to sociopathy/psychopathy.

Run.

 

[Billtx49]

If the personality disorder or whatever she has is so bad she self harms, it is a severe case. She will more than likely turn your life into a living hell if you stay within her grasp.
Exit ASAP

 

[dude99]

This girl I'd been smashing scratched her skin off during an argument.
Another time she did it for fun and showed me the bandages during sex.
Can anyone experienced tell me what's this all about?

Same behaviour as girls who cut themselves.

This is a sign of deeper seeded mental issue. Beware of these type of women. Run. Do not walk away. Run.

 

[darktranquilo]

RUN!
If you really need more info, Google it.

DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT attempt to white knight this. Only a licensed professional can help her.

Just stop contact.

Don't you think it's too much to just let her go considering she's possibly just acting out?
Isn't it a drastic step?
No way to make it work with her?

 

[Billtx49]

Don't you think it's too much to just let her go considering she's possibly just acting out?
Isn't it a drastic step?
No way to make it work with her?

Take the advice of the men here that have run into these types of females before.

 

[darktranquilo]

If the personality disorder or whatever she has is so bad she self harms, it is a severe case. She will more than likely turn your life into a living hell if you stay within her grasp.
Exit ASAP

Looks like you've had first hand experience here.

It's surprising to see every person here giving concurrent advice.
I'm obviously not too blindsided to not take it.
But If you could elaborate a little more I'll be thankful.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Looks like you've had first hand experience here.

It's surprising to see every person here giving concurrent advice.
I'm obviously not too blindsided to not take it.
But If you could elaborate a little more I'll be thankful.

This thread is a good place to start.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/thread...ne-personality-disorder-thread-merged.164551/

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

What a troll. How can you guys not see that?

 

[darktranquilo]

What a troll. How can you guys not see that?

I'm seeking some insight from people who aren't pricks here with some experience.
Thanks for the bump nonetheless.
Stay double great.

 

[sazc]

Elaborate how? You're not a psychiatrist, giving love to someone with these types of issues isn't going to fix them. In fact, in the end you will have first hand knowledge of what roadkill looks like.

Honestly, your first standard for women to date is that they 'display normal behavior'

The best thing you can do for her is to tell her that she has issues she needs to work on, good luck and good bye

 

[dude99]

Don't you think it's too much to just let her go considering she's possibly just acting out?
Isn't it a drastic step?
No way to make it work with her?

The way to make it work with girls who act out is to not put up with their bs. When they know you will walk and not look back then they won't play those games. If they still do after you have out your foot down then they are a special kind of crazy you don't want to be with anyways.

 

[sazc]

The way to make it work with girls who act out is to not put up with their bs. When they know you will walk and not look back then they won't play those games. If they still do after you have out your foot down then they are a special kind of crazy you don't want to be with anyways.

You are literally inviting trouble in if you do this.

 

[RalphaWreck]

...but the sex is sooooo good!!!

 

[dude99]

You are literally inviting trouble in if you do this.

He was asking if there is any way to make it work. Personally i would just walk away, and next her but if he is willing to try, then he needs to put his foot down. I agree with you. It will be trouble. But he has to be prepaired to walk away.

 

[Dingo]

Marry her...