Packers2010
Master Don Juan
I'm seeing her tonight so whatever
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
what the fock are you talking about???? you have not the obligation to probe your self to any one, if they don`t like you then....................they can go fock them selvesPackers2010 said:i don't know her friend very well. but if i got to know them more i'm sure i could win them over. or at least set them out with one of my friends to keep her busy.
jafyk said:Please tell me that you mean to say "attracted" as opposed to "attacked" because if you meant to say the first and spelled it as the second, then wow!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
yeah i know i haven't i told her this myself. i know i'm not there to impress her friends or anything. i was just sayin. you know how much girls listen to there friends. if one of them doesn't like you watch out.JEFE said:what the fock are you talking about???? you have not the obligation to probe your self to any one, if they don`t like you then....................they can go fock them selves
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Jay Dee said:She's gonna physically attack you if you don't get the hint.
Fact is, she is happy enough to feck with but not get with you - you're a feck buddy and nothing more currently - if she's more worried what her friends think than what you want, what does that say? That her friends right now are more important than you.
The winning them over is you trying too hard - improve your appearance for you, not them. I say enjoy the FB status for now, but don't fall in love with her as it won't be returned. Also expect her to stop fecking you once she has found someone who 'physically' attracts her who she can parade to her girlies.
She sounds a bit more straight up than most gals, but then again it could be all bull - all you need to know is that anything other than a yes is a no. Back off, maintain that FB if you can manage it, and start checking for another bird who likes you more.
hoooo shet man, please, stop saying gay things like thisPackers2010 said:you know how much girls listen to there friends. if one of them doesn't like you watch out
JEFE said:hoooo shet man, please, stop saying gay things like this
why should you let other pepole define your life. if they don`t like you well that´s toooo ooooooooo bad for them not for you because you ARE A MAN OF VALUE.
she tells you that she loves you?????
she is not demonstrating that she love you if she let their friends define if is good or bad to be with you.
JUDGE BY ACTIONS NOT BY WORDS
stop posting, READ THE BIBLE
IMPROVE YOUR SELF TO THE FULLEST
go infield get girls fock girls enjoy girls.
stop fearing what people think about you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.