"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girl says she's not physically attacked to me.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Please tell me that you mean to say "attracted" as opposed to "attacked" because if you meant to say the first and spelled it as the second, then wow!
 

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She's gonna physically attack you if you don't get the hint.

Fact is, she is happy enough to feck with but not get with you - you're a feck buddy and nothing more currently - if she's more worried what her friends think than what you want, what does that say? That her friends right now are more important than you.

The winning them over is you trying too hard - improve your appearance for you, not them. I say enjoy the FB status for now, but don't fall in love with her as it won't be returned. Also expect her to stop fecking you once she has found someone who 'physically' attracts her who she can parade to her girlies.

She sounds a bit more straight up than most gals, but then again it could be all bull - all you need to know is that anything other than a yes is a no. Back off, maintain that FB if you can manage it, and start checking for another bird who likes you more.
 

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Packers2010 said:
i don't know her friend very well. but if i got to know them more i'm sure i could win them over. or at least set them out with one of my friends to keep her busy.
what the fock are you talking about???? you have not the obligation to probe your self to any one, if they don`t like you then....................they can go fock them selves

whata a fock is going on in this forumm????

man please read the bible

man please continue focking the shlt out of this girl and get more girls man,

build a mentality of abundance.

pd:---------------------------happy new year--------------------------
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JEFE said:
what the fock are you talking about???? you have not the obligation to probe your self to any one, if they don`t like you then....................they can go fock them selves



pd:---------------------------happy new year--------------------------
yeah i know i haven't i told her this myself. i know i'm not there to impress her friends or anything. i was just sayin. you know how much girls listen to there friends. if one of them doesn't like you watch out.


happy new year to you too man.
 

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Jay Dee said:
She's gonna physically attack you if you don't get the hint.

Fact is, she is happy enough to feck with but not get with you - you're a feck buddy and nothing more currently - if she's more worried what her friends think than what you want, what does that say? That her friends right now are more important than you.

The winning them over is you trying too hard - improve your appearance for you, not them. I say enjoy the FB status for now, but don't fall in love with her as it won't be returned. Also expect her to stop fecking you once she has found someone who 'physically' attracts her who she can parade to her girlies.

She sounds a bit more straight up than most gals, but then again it could be all bull - all you need to know is that anything other than a yes is a no. Back off, maintain that FB if you can manage it, and start checking for another bird who likes you more.


it's partly cos she is home alone right now. but she has told me on sevral occasions that she loves me. so i don't know. could just be weired chick stuff
 

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Yes, girls say lots of things....

It's probably a test to see if you can be man enough to make a move, or whether you meekly accept her frame (of her being in control).

Ignore what she says, focus on what she does (refer my sig).

If she says she is not physcially attracted to you, then bangs you, which do you think is correct?
 

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Packers2010 said:
you know how much girls listen to there friends. if one of them doesn't like you watch out
hoooo shet man, please, stop saying gay things like this

why should you let other pepole define your life. if they don`t like you well that´s toooo ooooooooo bad for them not for you because you ARE A MAN OF VALUE.

she tells you that she loves you?????

she is not demonstrating that she love you if she let their friends define if is good or bad to be with you.

JUDGE BY ACTIONS NOT BY WORDS

stop posting, READ THE BIBLE

IMPROVE YOUR SELF TO THE FULLEST

go infield get girls fock girls enjoy girls.

stop fearing what people think about you.
 

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JEFE said:
hoooo shet man, please, stop saying gay things like this

why should you let other pepole define your life. if they don`t like you well that´s toooo ooooooooo bad for them not for you because you ARE A MAN OF VALUE.

she tells you that she loves you?????

she is not demonstrating that she love you if she let their friends define if is good or bad to be with you.

JUDGE BY ACTIONS NOT BY WORDS

stop posting, READ THE BIBLE

IMPROVE YOUR SELF TO THE FULLEST

go infield get girls fock girls enjoy girls.

stop fearing what people think about you.


what? i know i said that. but her friends have no baring on this. ok. i was just a fling while her folks was out of town. i have to accept this and move on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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