"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girl says she's not physically attacked to me.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Please tell me that you mean to say "attracted" as opposed to "attacked" because if you meant to say the first and spelled it as the second, then wow!
 

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She's gonna physically attack you if you don't get the hint.

Fact is, she is happy enough to feck with but not get with you - you're a feck buddy and nothing more currently - if she's more worried what her friends think than what you want, what does that say? That her friends right now are more important than you.

The winning them over is you trying too hard - improve your appearance for you, not them. I say enjoy the FB status for now, but don't fall in love with her as it won't be returned. Also expect her to stop fecking you once she has found someone who 'physically' attracts her who she can parade to her girlies.

She sounds a bit more straight up than most gals, but then again it could be all bull - all you need to know is that anything other than a yes is a no. Back off, maintain that FB if you can manage it, and start checking for another bird who likes you more.
 

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Packers2010 said:
i don't know her friend very well. but if i got to know them more i'm sure i could win them over. or at least set them out with one of my friends to keep her busy.
what the fock are you talking about???? you have not the obligation to probe your self to any one, if they don`t like you then....................they can go fock them selves

whata a fock is going on in this forumm????

man please read the bible

man please continue focking the shlt out of this girl and get more girls man,

build a mentality of abundance.

pd:---------------------------happy new year--------------------------
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JEFE said:
what the fock are you talking about???? you have not the obligation to probe your self to any one, if they don`t like you then....................they can go fock them selves



pd:---------------------------happy new year--------------------------
yeah i know i haven't i told her this myself. i know i'm not there to impress her friends or anything. i was just sayin. you know how much girls listen to there friends. if one of them doesn't like you watch out.


happy new year to you too man.
 

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Jay Dee said:
She's gonna physically attack you if you don't get the hint.

Fact is, she is happy enough to feck with but not get with you - you're a feck buddy and nothing more currently - if she's more worried what her friends think than what you want, what does that say? That her friends right now are more important than you.

The winning them over is you trying too hard - improve your appearance for you, not them. I say enjoy the FB status for now, but don't fall in love with her as it won't be returned. Also expect her to stop fecking you once she has found someone who 'physically' attracts her who she can parade to her girlies.

She sounds a bit more straight up than most gals, but then again it could be all bull - all you need to know is that anything other than a yes is a no. Back off, maintain that FB if you can manage it, and start checking for another bird who likes you more.


it's partly cos she is home alone right now. but she has told me on sevral occasions that she loves me. so i don't know. could just be weired chick stuff
 

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Yes, girls say lots of things....

It's probably a test to see if you can be man enough to make a move, or whether you meekly accept her frame (of her being in control).

Ignore what she says, focus on what she does (refer my sig).

If she says she is not physcially attracted to you, then bangs you, which do you think is correct?
 

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Packers2010 said:
you know how much girls listen to there friends. if one of them doesn't like you watch out
hoooo shet man, please, stop saying gay things like this

why should you let other pepole define your life. if they don`t like you well that´s toooo ooooooooo bad for them not for you because you ARE A MAN OF VALUE.

she tells you that she loves you?????

she is not demonstrating that she love you if she let their friends define if is good or bad to be with you.

JUDGE BY ACTIONS NOT BY WORDS

stop posting, READ THE BIBLE

IMPROVE YOUR SELF TO THE FULLEST

go infield get girls fock girls enjoy girls.

stop fearing what people think about you.
 

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JEFE said:
hoooo shet man, please, stop saying gay things like this

why should you let other pepole define your life. if they don`t like you well that´s toooo ooooooooo bad for them not for you because you ARE A MAN OF VALUE.

she tells you that she loves you?????

she is not demonstrating that she love you if she let their friends define if is good or bad to be with you.

JUDGE BY ACTIONS NOT BY WORDS

stop posting, READ THE BIBLE

IMPROVE YOUR SELF TO THE FULLEST

go infield get girls fock girls enjoy girls.

stop fearing what people think about you.


what? i know i said that. but her friends have no baring on this. ok. i was just a fling while her folks was out of town. i have to accept this and move on.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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