"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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girl says she's not physically attacked to me.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Please tell me that you mean to say "attracted" as opposed to "attacked" because if you meant to say the first and spelled it as the second, then wow!
 

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She's gonna physically attack you if you don't get the hint.

Fact is, she is happy enough to feck with but not get with you - you're a feck buddy and nothing more currently - if she's more worried what her friends think than what you want, what does that say? That her friends right now are more important than you.

The winning them over is you trying too hard - improve your appearance for you, not them. I say enjoy the FB status for now, but don't fall in love with her as it won't be returned. Also expect her to stop fecking you once she has found someone who 'physically' attracts her who she can parade to her girlies.

She sounds a bit more straight up than most gals, but then again it could be all bull - all you need to know is that anything other than a yes is a no. Back off, maintain that FB if you can manage it, and start checking for another bird who likes you more.
 

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Packers2010 said:
i don't know her friend very well. but if i got to know them more i'm sure i could win them over. or at least set them out with one of my friends to keep her busy.
what the fock are you talking about???? you have not the obligation to probe your self to any one, if they don`t like you then....................they can go fock them selves

whata a fock is going on in this forumm????

man please read the bible

man please continue focking the shlt out of this girl and get more girls man,

build a mentality of abundance.

pd:---------------------------happy new year--------------------------
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JEFE said:
what the fock are you talking about???? you have not the obligation to probe your self to any one, if they don`t like you then....................they can go fock them selves



pd:---------------------------happy new year--------------------------
yeah i know i haven't i told her this myself. i know i'm not there to impress her friends or anything. i was just sayin. you know how much girls listen to there friends. if one of them doesn't like you watch out.


happy new year to you too man.
 

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Jay Dee said:
She's gonna physically attack you if you don't get the hint.

Fact is, she is happy enough to feck with but not get with you - you're a feck buddy and nothing more currently - if she's more worried what her friends think than what you want, what does that say? That her friends right now are more important than you.

The winning them over is you trying too hard - improve your appearance for you, not them. I say enjoy the FB status for now, but don't fall in love with her as it won't be returned. Also expect her to stop fecking you once she has found someone who 'physically' attracts her who she can parade to her girlies.

She sounds a bit more straight up than most gals, but then again it could be all bull - all you need to know is that anything other than a yes is a no. Back off, maintain that FB if you can manage it, and start checking for another bird who likes you more.


it's partly cos she is home alone right now. but she has told me on sevral occasions that she loves me. so i don't know. could just be weired chick stuff
 

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Yes, girls say lots of things....

It's probably a test to see if you can be man enough to make a move, or whether you meekly accept her frame (of her being in control).

Ignore what she says, focus on what she does (refer my sig).

If she says she is not physcially attracted to you, then bangs you, which do you think is correct?
 

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Packers2010 said:
you know how much girls listen to there friends. if one of them doesn't like you watch out
hoooo shet man, please, stop saying gay things like this

why should you let other pepole define your life. if they don`t like you well that´s toooo ooooooooo bad for them not for you because you ARE A MAN OF VALUE.

she tells you that she loves you?????

she is not demonstrating that she love you if she let their friends define if is good or bad to be with you.

JUDGE BY ACTIONS NOT BY WORDS

stop posting, READ THE BIBLE

IMPROVE YOUR SELF TO THE FULLEST

go infield get girls fock girls enjoy girls.

stop fearing what people think about you.
 

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JEFE said:
hoooo shet man, please, stop saying gay things like this

why should you let other pepole define your life. if they don`t like you well that´s toooo ooooooooo bad for them not for you because you ARE A MAN OF VALUE.

she tells you that she loves you?????

she is not demonstrating that she love you if she let their friends define if is good or bad to be with you.

JUDGE BY ACTIONS NOT BY WORDS

stop posting, READ THE BIBLE

IMPROVE YOUR SELF TO THE FULLEST

go infield get girls fock girls enjoy girls.

stop fearing what people think about you.


what? i know i said that. but her friends have no baring on this. ok. i was just a fling while her folks was out of town. i have to accept this and move on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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