“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl says she just broke up with her bf

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Allurre

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Don't ever let the words "I'm not ready" stop you from establishing a connection with her. The key is to not come as too forward, but keep in touch and gradually raise her interest level.

You need to build emotional rapport with her, but not let her cry all over you and go on for hours about her past relationship.

I'm not certain of what position you're in right now... are you planning to return to her and ask for digits later?
 

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BongDuy said:
What do you say? Pretend you are about to get her number, or make a move, and she suddenly confesses that she "isnt ready" because she just got out of a relationship with a bf
I doubt she'd "suddenly" confess she isn't ready to date because she just got out of a relationship. More than likely,everything you said and did to her leading up to this so-called "confession" simply did not create attraction in her. So her telling you she "isn't ready" was just another way of turning you down.

Women rarely,RARELY,reject men with a flat out "no". They say things that equal no.

Think about this for a second. Do you really think she going to tell you she isn't ready,wait a few weeks or months later,then contact you and go,"Ok,I'm ready. We can start dating now."?

I've gotten the so called,"I can't date right now" line before,then a week or two later,I'd see the same woman out somewhere walking and holding hands with another guy.

So basically when you get the "I'm not ready line",is doesn't mean she isn't ready. It means you screwed up somewhere earlier in the approach.
 

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this was just a situation i was in a long time ago, when i met this girl who i was holding back on. i was a huge AFC back then, but i was thinking that i wasnt going to rush anything until she was ready because she was texting my friend and was talking to him about me, and she said " well i like him, but i dont think im ready for a relationship" so i was like " okay when she seems ready i will make a move" unfortunately, i was an idiot and i didn't make a move, costing me a relationship and putting me in the friend zone. she now has a bf
 
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