"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl says she just broke up with her bf

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't ever let the words "I'm not ready" stop you from establishing a connection with her. The key is to not come as too forward, but keep in touch and gradually raise her interest level.

You need to build emotional rapport with her, but not let her cry all over you and go on for hours about her past relationship.

I'm not certain of what position you're in right now... are you planning to return to her and ask for digits later?
 
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BongDuy said:
What do you say? Pretend you are about to get her number, or make a move, and she suddenly confesses that she "isnt ready" because she just got out of a relationship with a bf
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I doubt she'd "suddenly" confess she isn't ready to date because she just got out of a relationship. More than likely,everything you said and did to her leading up to this so-called "confession" simply did not create attraction in her. So her telling you she "isn't ready" was just another way of turning you down.

Women rarely,RARELY,reject men with a flat out "no". They say things that equal no.

Think about this for a second. Do you really think she going to tell you she isn't ready,wait a few weeks or months later,then contact you and go,"Ok,I'm ready. We can start dating now."?

I've gotten the so called,"I can't date right now" line before,then a week or two later,I'd see the same woman out somewhere walking and holding hands with another guy.

So basically when you get the "I'm not ready line",is doesn't mean she isn't ready. It means you screwed up somewhere earlier in the approach.
 
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this was just a situation i was in a long time ago, when i met this girl who i was holding back on. i was a huge AFC back then, but i was thinking that i wasnt going to rush anything until she was ready because she was texting my friend and was talking to him about me, and she said " well i like him, but i dont think im ready for a relationship" so i was like " okay when she seems ready i will make a move" unfortunately, i was an idiot and i didn't make a move, costing me a relationship and putting me in the friend zone. she now has a bf
 
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