"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl says she is a lesbian and wants me to get dinner with her.

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T-Mack

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I was chatting up this girl the other day that I met a few months ago. We never really talked until now.

I didn't think she was a lesbian when I first met her and I just kind of heard it through the grapevine. I asked her about it to confirm she was a lesbian and even asked her if she was Bi. However, she said no to being Bi and yes for being a lesbian. Well, after I finished chatting with her and said goodbye.

I get a message from her on facebook saying we should get dinner.. here is my number. call me bi*ch.

Any thoughts on this? In my opinion it seems like a waste of time for me unless she plans on experimenting with guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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horaholic

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She wants to hang out as a friend, obviously. But, I dont believe she isnt bi. Jus tlike the saying goes, 'everyone has gay in them, its just a matter of to what extent.' Well, its the same thing with being gay. They always have some straight in them, just to an extent. Thats why you dont trust gay dudes with your GF.
 
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I'd say go for it.

Kino kino kino (I hate that word)
 
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This was entertaining. :)
She might not be lesbian at all and just be messing with you. Or she might be a lesbian and be messing with you. Both ways it will sure be an interesting dinner. Good luck, b!tch! :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yah I got better things to do with my time than playing a game of "is she really a lesbian". Maybe you don't. I don't date lesbians or bi sexual chics anyway.
 
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Go for it, but since she asked you out, she pays. Could be fun!
 
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T-Mack said:
In my opinion it seems like a waste of time for me unless she plans on experimenting with guys.
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Sounds about right to me.

I'm curious though if you went for dinner with her already as to how it went. Everything you've posted here points to her being a crazy chick. You can do better.
 
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go and mess with her. have fun. kino kino kino as the smart DJ above advised. so what if it's a waste of time? so is going out drinking, and coming home alone if you want to look at it that way. Life is an adventure, go have some fun. Dont forget there are things like social value, and networking... so if shes cool, have some fun.
 
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