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Girl says she is a lesbian and wants me to get dinner with her.

T-Mack

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I was chatting up this girl the other day that I met a few months ago. We never really talked until now.

I didn't think she was a lesbian when I first met her and I just kind of heard it through the grapevine. I asked her about it to confirm she was a lesbian and even asked her if she was Bi. However, she said no to being Bi and yes for being a lesbian. Well, after I finished chatting with her and said goodbye.

I get a message from her on facebook saying we should get dinner.. here is my number. call me bi*ch.

Any thoughts on this? In my opinion it seems like a waste of time for me unless she plans on experimenting with guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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horaholic

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She wants to hang out as a friend, obviously. But, I dont believe she isnt bi. Jus tlike the saying goes, 'everyone has gay in them, its just a matter of to what extent.' Well, its the same thing with being gay. They always have some straight in them, just to an extent. Thats why you dont trust gay dudes with your GF.
 

Vice

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I'd say go for it.

Kino kino kino (I hate that word)
 

Skydiver43127

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This was entertaining. :)
She might not be lesbian at all and just be messing with you. Or she might be a lesbian and be messing with you. Both ways it will sure be an interesting dinner. Good luck, b!tch! :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Warrior74

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Yah I got better things to do with my time than playing a game of "is she really a lesbian". Maybe you don't. I don't date lesbians or bi sexual chics anyway.
 

Jitterbug

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Go for it, but since she asked you out, she pays. Could be fun!
 

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T-Mack said:
In my opinion it seems like a waste of time for me unless she plans on experimenting with guys.
Sounds about right to me.

I'm curious though if you went for dinner with her already as to how it went. Everything you've posted here points to her being a crazy chick. You can do better.
 

Joe Stud

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go and mess with her. have fun. kino kino kino as the smart DJ above advised. so what if it's a waste of time? so is going out drinking, and coming home alone if you want to look at it that way. Life is an adventure, go have some fun. Dont forget there are things like social value, and networking... so if shes cool, have some fun.
 
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