Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl says she is a lesbian and wants me to get dinner with her.

T-Mack

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I was chatting up this girl the other day that I met a few months ago. We never really talked until now.

I didn't think she was a lesbian when I first met her and I just kind of heard it through the grapevine. I asked her about it to confirm she was a lesbian and even asked her if she was Bi. However, she said no to being Bi and yes for being a lesbian. Well, after I finished chatting with her and said goodbye.

I get a message from her on facebook saying we should get dinner.. here is my number. call me bi*ch.

Any thoughts on this? In my opinion it seems like a waste of time for me unless she plans on experimenting with guys.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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horaholic

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She wants to hang out as a friend, obviously. But, I dont believe she isnt bi. Jus tlike the saying goes, 'everyone has gay in them, its just a matter of to what extent.' Well, its the same thing with being gay. They always have some straight in them, just to an extent. Thats why you dont trust gay dudes with your GF.
 

Vice

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I'd say go for it.

Kino kino kino (I hate that word)
 

Skydiver43127

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This was entertaining. :)
She might not be lesbian at all and just be messing with you. Or she might be a lesbian and be messing with you. Both ways it will sure be an interesting dinner. Good luck, b!tch! :)
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Warrior74

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Yah I got better things to do with my time than playing a game of "is she really a lesbian". Maybe you don't. I don't date lesbians or bi sexual chics anyway.
 

Jitterbug

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Go for it, but since she asked you out, she pays. Could be fun!
 

Evzone

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T-Mack said:
In my opinion it seems like a waste of time for me unless she plans on experimenting with guys.
Sounds about right to me.

I'm curious though if you went for dinner with her already as to how it went. Everything you've posted here points to her being a crazy chick. You can do better.
 

Joe Stud

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go and mess with her. have fun. kino kino kino as the smart DJ above advised. so what if it's a waste of time? so is going out drinking, and coming home alone if you want to look at it that way. Life is an adventure, go have some fun. Dont forget there are things like social value, and networking... so if shes cool, have some fun.
 
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