Girl says my confidence is hot but...

[Perfect10]

So one of my plates that I haven't sexed yet is very nice and cool. We we're talking about non serious stuff, being sarcastic mood and joking around and I said "oh well good cause I'm intresting and I have a big package" (we had a sarcastic funny wibe going, not as creepy as it looks here) Then she txts me back:
" I find it sexy that you're very confident and bossy. And im not going to lie but this confidence of yours does slightly intimidate me too... "

.... what the ****?...

I haven't been overtly ****y or an huge *******. That what I wrote might be the ****iest thing I've said to her What the hell does intimidating mean?

Well I asked her. Let's see. I want some insight from my fellow DJnians too

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

I wouldn't listen to that sh*t. That's just one of those things that women say that has no bearing on reality.

She likes you, she's attracted to you, you'll get her naked in at MOST a week.

 

[PokerStar]

shes looking to be dominated. by you of course.

 

[AAAgent]

Judging from that response, it seems she into you.

I would respond back with something like

"Good "

its playful yet serious and doesn't leave any room for you to really go overboard or screw up. I would follow-up on it soon and make a move.

Since i know one of my weakness's is always saying too much, i always try to watch what i say and say as little as possible to convey my answer/actions.

 

[Perfect10]

Well i asked her: Intimidates? What are we, rivaling alphamales?

She answered: Yes intimidates, you make me nervous sometimes with your confidence! Haha, okay this sounds kind of funny, but it's true.

I text (toning down my aggressiveness) : Okay, this is getting intresting Good nervous or bad nervous? I've never gotten that response before, I'm a normal dude after all (I though maybe some hooks or whatever they call them in MM. Like show just a bit of vournability).

This is fun

 

[Iceberg]

Well i asked her: Intimidates? What are we, rivaling alphamales?

She answered: Yes intimidates, you make me nervous sometimes with your confidence! Haha, okay this sounds kind of funny, but it's true.

I text (toning down my aggressiveness) : Okay, this is getting intresting Good nervous or bad nervous? I've never gotten that response before, I'm a normal dude after all (I though maybe some hooks or whatever they call them in MM. Like show just a bit of vournability).

This is fun

Okay Romeo.

You've given her enough attention for one day. Save some for the face-to-face.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

sounds like she's joking around with you on that line. It's not a big deal, don't worry about it.

 

[AAAgent]

second Iceberg's comment

 

[Perfect10]

Muauha. Got a response. This one is SO kickass you guys will cry of joy!

"Well nervous... not like in a bad way well yea, I think that might kinda be it: you're a pretty normal dude, but then have a very strong personality and opinions and you assert yourself as being very confident through both your talking and behaviour. But yeah bottom line you make me feel nervous and a bit like a little girl you know on a date with a guy. Which is totally not a normal feeling for me, cause usually I am like very overtly confident and I have a huge "im too good for you" ego around guys."

Well i'm going to take this as, yes she's falling for me. Extremly attracted buy ABSOLUTELY not relashionship material.

 

[Perfect10]

Good point Ice. I'll just respond. "Good! and goodnight"
That should mess with her a bit.

 

[perseverance]

Jesus this is turning from a light bit of flirting into an UN Security Council meeting about Iran's potential nuclear weapon capabilities. If a woman text me that, I'd take that as a major compliment and a huge sign that she was into me and I'd be trying to arrange a meet up with this girl.

Remember as easy as it is to attract a woman, it's also as easy to lose her attraction.

 

[pdx1138]

Awesome Perfect10, I'm in a similar situation with a great gal I met a few weeks ago.

All I would add is don't for get the 1 step forward 2 steps back. ie PUSH/PULL.
Give her a little less responses and make sure you sometimes take hours to return them.

Pace yourself buddy...you're doing well...

 

[Vice]

I text (toning down my aggressiveness) : Okay, this is getting intresting Good nervous or bad nervous? I've never gotten that response before, I'm a normal dude after all (I though maybe some hooks or whatever they call them in MM. Like show just a bit of vournability).

You just shot yourself in the foot here.

Take a compliment and leave it.

Don't start "explaining" and convincing her that you're a "normal dude".

Don't worry though, this isn't a game killer.

 

[pdx1138]

You just shot yourself in the foot here.

Take a compliment and leave it.

Don't start "explaining" and convincing her that you're a "normal dude".

Don't worry though, this isn't a game killer.

+1 absolutely. maintain your mysterious ways.

 

[st_99]

who cares, most everything a girl says is meaningless nonsense (i love you today, i think of you as a friend tomorrow). what she is doing is all that matters.. you or someone else? analyzing = dead end.

 

[Perfect10]

who cares, most everything a girl says is meaningless nonsense (i love you today, i think of you as a friend tomorrow). what she is doing is all that matters.. you or someone else? analyzing = dead end.

This is all that matters.

I wrote this thread for fun, I don't need advice.
My game isn't perfect by all means but I know the **** they teach here in this forum will most likely **** you up. I'm getting laid enough by cute enough girls. Sometimes I come here to see what's happening but I've not really learned a lot from this site. What I have learned is exactly what St_99 said.

Don't analyze. Who gives a damn? If she doesn't like, then she doesn't like. I'm not going to stress and think about how to "game" her while I'm on a date. I'm myself and flirty. I talk what I want, about what I want be it religion, race, abortions or cookies. I don't limit myself in anyway, that would only cause me stress which would **** my concentration of actually listening about what the other person I'm meeting has to say.

That is the contradiction in this site: "DJmaster": Hey dude, you're such a *****. You should've held her hand for 2,2 second not 1,5. Also try saying "condom" in every sentence to show your sexuality.
*****: Okay I will say condom in my every sentence! From now condom on!

 

[AAAgent]

so here your to hype up your ego basically since you're not here for self help.

nice...

 

[tafakna]

so here your to hype up your ego basically since you're not here for self help.

nice...

Just like everything he has ever posted here... starting from his nickname... lol