"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl says 'Im a beauty therapist, im a hairdresser, i work in a clothes shop'

alphamale1

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Hey guys,

What r some funny c&f to those above?
i do find the c&f a little new but one thing david deangelo said was to find something arrogant and then make a funny statement

need some help on all this....

Ben
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lifeforce

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Why do C&F on those? Can't you just talk about the stuff instead to be fun all the time. C&F isn't something to learn beforehand and then said like a pick-up line. Do it when you feel like it, but do get some rapport in so you know she's ok with it and be sure you know how much rapport you have so you know what she will tolerate.

See C&F as asking the girl to ****, you just can't say "wanna ****?" but if you have much more rapport then it will work. Some stuff like saying... I'm a hairdresser "Yeah, I know, that's why I never go there *wink*" doesn't work off the fly because you hurt her ego but when you have rapport she know you are not serious. Be careful or you'll end up ****y&A$$hole.
 

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That's a good point lifeforce, it's a neg right off the bat.

I guess the time to use it is when your talking but she looks like she's going off the boil.

This could explain why I quite often get insults hurled at me alot. I'm to quick with the neg. Either that or I'm just an assole.
 
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