"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl says 'Im a beauty therapist, im a hairdresser, i work in a clothes shop'

alphamale1

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Hey guys,

What r some funny c&f to those above?
i do find the c&f a little new but one thing david deangelo said was to find something arrogant and then make a funny statement

need some help on all this....

Ben
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lifeforce

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Why do C&F on those? Can't you just talk about the stuff instead to be fun all the time. C&F isn't something to learn beforehand and then said like a pick-up line. Do it when you feel like it, but do get some rapport in so you know she's ok with it and be sure you know how much rapport you have so you know what she will tolerate.

See C&F as asking the girl to ****, you just can't say "wanna ****?" but if you have much more rapport then it will work. Some stuff like saying... I'm a hairdresser "Yeah, I know, that's why I never go there *wink*" doesn't work off the fly because you hurt her ego but when you have rapport she know you are not serious. Be careful or you'll end up ****y&A$$hole.
 

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That's a good point lifeforce, it's a neg right off the bat.

I guess the time to use it is when your talking but she looks like she's going off the boil.

This could explain why I quite often get insults hurled at me alot. I'm to quick with the neg. Either that or I'm just an assole.
 
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