"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl says I shouldn't do something on text, I ignore and don't respond, gets back MAD

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alpha_ash

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So I met a girl a few weeks ago. She seemed very cool until last Thursday. Got upset that I kept doing something she didn't like and texted it to me with a "don't do it again, ok?" I saw the text, didn't respond and never got back to her. She texts me Saturday night, fuming and upset and angry, that I ignored her and that I am mad at her for sending me that text. She refused to speak on the phone. Obviously I don't take her seriously and kept making jokes. Then finally calls me and yells at me on the phone while I'm trying to reason with this *****.

I asked her, "why are you contacting me on a Saturday night about this, go have fun, I am nothing to you." She says, "Oh because you said you wanted to hang out this weekend and never got back to me." I laugh! hahaha

So finally she calms down and we make plans to hang out on Sunday (today). I'm considering saying goodbye or better yet, going completely no contact and ignoring any/all messages that come from her.

What's the best course of action? Is there a way to regain frame of control? Salvageable? or is GOODBYE the only course of action? If so, then should i say anything or just completely go no contact without saying goodbye?

EDIT: In her defense, what I was repeatedly doing is something that can be very annoying. I am a man and I admit that I wouldn't like to have the same thing done to me. Unfortunately I can't discuss the specifics of what I was doing that was so annoying.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stay the course and hang out with her a few times to get a feel if her anger is constant. I wouldn't next her just yet, keep your options open.
 
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UPDATE:

Today she flakes saying that she didn't agree to see me and said she only stated she would think about it. Sounds still upset with me. This was the last straw. I'm going no contact without saying anything at this point. Completely removing her from my life. Deleted her number and if she contacts me I know the last four digits of her number so I will be able to just ignore. Oh well.
 
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