"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl says I shouldn't do something on text, I ignore and don't respond, gets back MAD

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So I met a girl a few weeks ago. She seemed very cool until last Thursday. Got upset that I kept doing something she didn't like and texted it to me with a "don't do it again, ok?" I saw the text, didn't respond and never got back to her. She texts me Saturday night, fuming and upset and angry, that I ignored her and that I am mad at her for sending me that text. She refused to speak on the phone. Obviously I don't take her seriously and kept making jokes. Then finally calls me and yells at me on the phone while I'm trying to reason with this *****.

I asked her, "why are you contacting me on a Saturday night about this, go have fun, I am nothing to you." She says, "Oh because you said you wanted to hang out this weekend and never got back to me." I laugh! hahaha

So finally she calms down and we make plans to hang out on Sunday (today). I'm considering saying goodbye or better yet, going completely no contact and ignoring any/all messages that come from her.

What's the best course of action? Is there a way to regain frame of control? Salvageable? or is GOODBYE the only course of action? If so, then should i say anything or just completely go no contact without saying goodbye?

EDIT: In her defense, what I was repeatedly doing is something that can be very annoying. I am a man and I admit that I wouldn't like to have the same thing done to me. Unfortunately I can't discuss the specifics of what I was doing that was so annoying.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stay the course and hang out with her a few times to get a feel if her anger is constant. I wouldn't next her just yet, keep your options open.
 
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UPDATE:

Today she flakes saying that she didn't agree to see me and said she only stated she would think about it. Sounds still upset with me. This was the last straw. I'm going no contact without saying anything at this point. Completely removing her from my life. Deleted her number and if she contacts me I know the last four digits of her number so I will be able to just ignore. Oh well.
 
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