“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Girl says I make her feel like an object

E_Sex

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So I've encountered a problem with this girl that I've been talking to. She's stopped fooling around with me and trying to have sex with me, because I make her feel like an object.

Anybody else have this problem? and what do I do in this situation?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mahoney

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ask her to be more specific about what things you do that make her feel this way
 

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E_Sex said:
So I've encountered a problem with this girl that I've been talking to. She's stopped fooling around with me and trying to have sex with me, because I make her feel like an object.

Anybody else have this problem? and what do I do in this situation?
Have you tried doing non sex related things?
 

PapiChulo

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You probably have just been f^%king too much.
 

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Girl says I make her feel like an object = she thinks you are too emotionally cold..

1. if she is still Fing you then keep doing what you are doing..
2. if she is cutting off sex then make her her think you see value in her outside of sex..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thevilittletroll

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agreed with last post....bottom line you need to build more of an emotional connection with her. show her that its not all about the sex. doing something fun outside the bedroom wouldnt be a bad idea. or the next time she comes over just dont initiate or have sex with her, while doing something fun. then kick her out saying, you cant stay i have to get up early tomorrow.
 

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Got a speech like this once after a first date that started with drinks and ended up with us back at my place doing everything but fvcking.

So for date 2 I proposed that we go bowling, have no drinks, and do it at a place that wasn't really very close to either of our apartments. I sincerely told her that I enjoyed her company and had no problem with a date and us not getting sexual.

She accepted, we went and had fun. Afterwards she attacked me in the parking lot. Then she asked to go have some wine at my place. I told her that I wasn't sure, as I didn't want her to think it was just sexual. She reassured me. We went back to my place. Happy ending.
 
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