Dhoulmagus
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and she has a house, but her degree sucks. She said she had a good job, but quit recently. Should I run away?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Quit her job as if it's an option. So she hopes to capitalize off the success of males? I'm not sure it's a good deal for you other than laying pipe.and she has a house, but her degree sucks. She said she had a good job, but quit recently. Should I run away?
Let her decide whether or not she'll f*ck you. Don't decide for her.I'm about to graduate college and have no where near as much wealth as a professional athlete. Why is she talking to me?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I don't want a std or my bank account whiped out the next morning.Let her decide whether or not she'll f*ck you. Don't decide for her.
Non compos mentis.I don't want a std or my bank account whiped out the next morning.
Lol you are right lol.Non compos mentis.
You can get an std anytime, anywhere. As for giving any chick access to your bank account, you'd be out of your mind.
But okay, you decide why she won't f*ck you. Do her thinking and deciding for her.
And think about this - a 'professional baseball player' could be a guy playin AA ball and living with his parents in abject poverty in the off season. You really think she's dating major leaguers like Roy Halladay? LOL!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This.Are you going to Merry her? No. Then why do you give a f*** about these things? Have fun yourself and stop being so suspicious.
Glad to see that somebody in this thread is up on game. Just because a cat is a professional baseball player, doesn't mean he's one of the 1,200 guys that are in the big leagues, and knowing this dumb f*ck he didn't ask. Question to the mods, why aren't dumb ass posters with a dumb ass posting history banned and why is this thread this opened?And think about this - a 'professional baseball player' could be a guy playing AA ball and living with his parents in abject poverty in the off season. You really think she's dating major leaguers like Roy Halladay? LOL!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This... You just need to worry about getting what you want... why waste your time trying to figure out what a woman's motivation might be. Women can change their minds about things the way we change underwear, soon as you think you have her figured out she will likely change anyway.Let her decide whether or not she'll f*ck you. Don't decide for her.
She's most likely a compulsive liar. Act unfazed like you don't even care about her exes. Her interest will go up. Tag that ass and the last second as you finish, call out another chicks name. This will destroy her stalker mechanism.and she has a house, but her degree sucks. She said she had a good job, but quit recently. Should I run away?