Dhoulmagus
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and she has a house, but her degree sucks. She said she had a good job, but quit recently. Should I run away?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Quit her job as if it's an option. So she hopes to capitalize off the success of males? I'm not sure it's a good deal for you other than laying pipe.and she has a house, but her degree sucks. She said she had a good job, but quit recently. Should I run away?
Let her decide whether or not she'll f*ck you. Don't decide for her.I'm about to graduate college and have no where near as much wealth as a professional athlete. Why is she talking to me?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't want a std or my bank account whiped out the next morning.Let her decide whether or not she'll f*ck you. Don't decide for her.
Non compos mentis.I don't want a std or my bank account whiped out the next morning.
Lol you are right lol.Non compos mentis.
You can get an std anytime, anywhere. As for giving any chick access to your bank account, you'd be out of your mind.
But okay, you decide why she won't f*ck you. Do her thinking and deciding for her.
And think about this - a 'professional baseball player' could be a guy playin AA ball and living with his parents in abject poverty in the off season. You really think she's dating major leaguers like Roy Halladay? LOL!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This.Are you going to Merry her? No. Then why do you give a f*** about these things? Have fun yourself and stop being so suspicious.
Glad to see that somebody in this thread is up on game. Just because a cat is a professional baseball player, doesn't mean he's one of the 1,200 guys that are in the big leagues, and knowing this dumb f*ck he didn't ask. Question to the mods, why aren't dumb ass posters with a dumb ass posting history banned and why is this thread this opened?And think about this - a 'professional baseball player' could be a guy playing AA ball and living with his parents in abject poverty in the off season. You really think she's dating major leaguers like Roy Halladay? LOL!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This... You just need to worry about getting what you want... why waste your time trying to figure out what a woman's motivation might be. Women can change their minds about things the way we change underwear, soon as you think you have her figured out she will likely change anyway.Let her decide whether or not she'll f*ck you. Don't decide for her.
She's most likely a compulsive liar. Act unfazed like you don't even care about her exes. Her interest will go up. Tag that ass and the last second as you finish, call out another chicks name. This will destroy her stalker mechanism.and she has a house, but her degree sucks. She said she had a good job, but quit recently. Should I run away?