Dhoulmagus
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and she has a house, but her degree sucks. She said she had a good job, but quit recently. Should I run away?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girl said she dated two professional baseball players
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Quit her job as if it's an option. So she hopes to capitalize off the success of males? I'm not sure it's a good deal for you other than laying pipe.
Some of these women get a "hi status" guy and love cheating on him with someone not as "hi status". As far as carrying her burden when she's looking at the largest male sluts in the world to hope to win over and get in their pockets, not so sure about that one.
Dhoulmagus
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I'm about to graduate college and have no where near as much wealth as a professional athlete. Why is she talking to me?
Tictac
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Let her decide whether or not she'll f*ck you. Don't decide for her.
NSX-R
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Are you going to Merry her? No. Then why do you give a f*** about these things? Have fun yourself and stop being so suspicious.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dhoulmagus
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I don't want a std or my bank account whiped out the next morning.
Tictac
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Non compos mentis.
You can get an std anytime, anywhere. As for giving any chick access to your bank account, you'd be out of your mind.
But okay, you decide why she won't f*ck you. Do her thinking and deciding for her.
And think about this - a 'professional baseball player' could be a guy playing AA ball and living with his parents in abject poverty in the off season. You really think she's dating major leaguers like Roy Halladay? LOL!
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Dhoulmagus
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Lol you are right lol.
dustmuffin
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Yell batter up and **** her silly. She may not b be ltr material but who cares? Cross that bridge if she brings it up.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
If you want to fvck her then stay. She basically just told you she's a wh0re lol. However if you want a LTR I would probably run because she's already hinting she likes money and would degrade herself for it.. I doubt any adult woman would actually date a professional athlete and think these men are exclusive to them. Unless she's that dumb or delusional in which case run lol. These guys are millionaires with ripped bodies who are on the road half the year. They could fvck 30 girls a season effortlessly and their wife/S.O would never even know, you know other than common sense. But no concrete proof. Shows you the quality of this woman, Probably got the house paid for by those athletes too since you said her degree sucks. In which case that means, that pvssy or head is bomb if these dudes are willing to fund a home for her lol.
So my final verdict, hit it, if its good keep hitting it, and then quit it
So my final verdict, hit it, if its good keep hitting it, and then quit it
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
These guys can phouc 300+ per season if they are inclined. Phouc her if you want to. Dont worry about why he chose you if her ex have so much more money. Maybe she wants to starve them take their money and give you the puzzy, happens ALL the damn time.
This.
If she is sane and fun for be around, stop over analyzing this OP. No need for all that when youre not serious about a girl.
Maximus Rex
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Glad to see that somebody in this thread is up on game. Just because a cat is a professional baseball player, doesn't mean he's one of the 1,200 guys that are in the big leagues, and knowing this dumb f*ck he didn't ask. Question to the mods, why aren't dumb ass posters with a dumb ass posting history banned and why is this thread this opened?
logicallefty
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The fact that two pro baseball players have homered in her isn't a big deal. Shoot maybe one left an autographed bat up in there that you can pull out and sell at a sports auction. I dated a woman back in 2012 who had an ex who was a Philly Flyers NHL hockey player. I sold that puck he left in her snatch for 500 bux.
What I would be concerned about was the quitting the job thing. She is looking for a sugar daddy. As as already been said, hit a few grand slams in her and be done.
What I would be concerned about was the quitting the job thing. She is looking for a sugar daddy. As as already been said, hit a few grand slams in her and be done.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
This... You just need to worry about getting what you want... why waste your time trying to figure out what a woman's motivation might be. Women can change their minds about things the way we change underwear, soon as you think you have her figured out she will likely change anyway.
AllDay85
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She's most likely a compulsive liar. Act unfazed like you don't even care about her exes. Her interest will go up. Tag that ass and the last second as you finish, call out another chicks name. This will destroy her stalker mechanism.