Tyrone Biggums
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Next her. A girl who sends mixed signals or confuses has low interest. Don't hang out with her anymore and find other chicks.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girl rejects my kiss yet still keeps wanting to go out
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I don't know about Nexting her quite yet. It may be an interesting experiment to continue hanging out with her; but on her dime. I say finding out if she's willing to pay for his company there may be some other interest. Either way, he'd either find out definitively if he's in the LJBF zone and/or get a couple of free meals out of it.Tyrone Biggums said:
Hey don't laugh, women do it all the time...
I would have laughed a few months ago, now i just silently nod my head
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I don't believe o'l boy is in friends zone yet because she's asking to hang out, so at the very least this girl thinks he MIGHT be an AFC but is willing to give more chances for whatever reasons... I liked the advice the oher guy gave, train her like a dog...
-Cod3r
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Make the Ho say No!!!
I believe she wants you bad... she just doesn't know it yet...
I believe she wants you bad... she just doesn't know it yet...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
When she said "Im not that kinda girl." I would have said "What kind of girl is that?"
If you macked her there and then you could have found out her intentions...
I got a feeling shes friendzoning.....however i think you should carry on for now. See where things go. Unless you have other options open at the moment.
Sarge On!
If you macked her there and then you could have found out her intentions...
I got a feeling shes friendzoning.....however i think you should carry on for now. See where things go. Unless you have other options open at the moment.
Sarge On!
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
EXACTLY:
HER: I'm not that kind of girl!
YOU: What kind of girl is that?
HER: Uh, uh, I just...... (cut her off)
YOU: Ya know I don't think I can date a girl who doesn't like to kiss. This isnt gonna work out. (Start to move away)
HER: Hey wait a sec. It's just that......... (cut her off again)
YOU: Nah, you're right, I guess we should just be friends. We're just not compatible......
At this point she's gonna be blown away. It's time for some serious ass-kissing on her part if she still truly wants to date you. I'm no super DJ but I've dealt with these situations before and you need to get her chasing after YOU. Walk away and if she chases you she's yours...........
HER: I'm not that kind of girl!
YOU: What kind of girl is that?
HER: Uh, uh, I just...... (cut her off)
YOU: Ya know I don't think I can date a girl who doesn't like to kiss. This isnt gonna work out. (Start to move away)
HER: Hey wait a sec. It's just that......... (cut her off again)
YOU: Nah, you're right, I guess we should just be friends. We're just not compatible......
At this point she's gonna be blown away. It's time for some serious ass-kissing on her part if she still truly wants to date you. I'm no super DJ but I've dealt with these situations before and you need to get her chasing after YOU. Walk away and if she chases you she's yours...........
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
:yes: to Buckwild and Francisco's suggestions.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
In a nutshell, take control of the situation yourself. Make her show her hand by calling her bluff. Make her put up or shut up.
I agree. But i wouldnt be so sure to next her so soon. You know what they say about relationships where you wait to lay the girl a month or so later?...exactly those are relationships.Francisco d'Anconia said:
You can say this is a similar scenario, some girls are more inexperienced/shy and prefer to go slowly. I recall once on date #1 with this girl i went for a kiss close, she wasnt ready and turned and all i got was her side lip. Date #2 i didnt bother...even after i got the same signs you did of her being interested. Date #3...makeout session baby.
patience can really pay off sometimes.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Screwit is right. I know one gal who was brought up really religious, but isn't any more, though still very inexperienced, who gets a bit closer at times, then backs way, way off. Like 2 steps forward, 1 step back, 2 more steps forward, 3 steps back, 3 steps forward, 3 steps back, etc. Flirts like mad over IM, skittish and inconsistent in person. I could see myself eventually getting involved with her, though it will take a long time for her to get to the point she trusts anyone enough. I just enjoy her company as a friend, continue to flirt and have fun with her, and if it happens someday, it happens someday.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
That's the difference though, you are satisfied with the friendship and -.- wasn't.Bonhomme said:
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Having others in the mix -- or even doing things to bring others into the mix -- makes it easier.
But, to quote the great philosopher Yogi Berra: If the people don't want to come out to the ballpark; nobody's gonna stop them.
But, to quote the great philosopher Yogi Berra: If the people don't want to come out to the ballpark; nobody's gonna stop them.