"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl reapplying lipstick

Nickface

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I have a quick question that's been nagging me recently. Full disclaimer* this chick is not my girlfriend. So I been spinning plates and I've got intimate and close to one particular chick. We were sitting down eating when she gets a phone call from one of her guy friends. She's going on vacation soon so I guess this dude wanted to say goodbye for the moment.

She hangs up phone and takes out lipstick from bag and goes to the bathroom. Comes out with her lips ruby red. I'm not exactly sure where this guy stands but it bothers me that she would do that right in front of me. What do you guys think? Am I overreacting because girls just like to do **** like that?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GotED?

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The Viagra Pill you wish you had...- United Kingdo
First of all, a woman totally into you would never pick up her phone on a date. Or even allow you to perceive that there are other men in her life who may be misconstrued by you that she is unqualified for you. A woman into you 100% would not jeopardize that misconception on a date.

You really need to assess what else happened on the date. Did she make an effort to touch you? Did she offer self disclosure of private info about her other than small talk? Was there a level of increased sharing of intimate discussion about personal thoughts? Did she leave subtle trails of liking something of you or complimenting you?

It takes huge amount of awareness on a date to pick up these cues, and nothing short of real experiences.

This is for a date planned ahead and scheduled, not some friendly unscheduled meetup.


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Cremasta

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Nickface said:
She hangs up phone and takes out lipstick from bag and goes to the bathroom. Comes out with her lips ruby red. I'm not exactly sure where this guy stands but it bothers me that she would do that right in front of me. What do you guys think? Am I overreacting because girls just like to do **** like that?
Nick! She was with you. She was putting on the lipstick for you! It was an invitation for you to go home with lipstick on your dyck!

If she's a plate, then you should have complimented her on how sexy it looks, then immediately busted her for trying to get you turned on while eating dinner.

You were there... in hindsight, do you think it was disrespect or an opportunity she was giving you?
 
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