"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl reapplying lipstick

Nickface

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I have a quick question that's been nagging me recently. Full disclaimer* this chick is not my girlfriend. So I been spinning plates and I've got intimate and close to one particular chick. We were sitting down eating when she gets a phone call from one of her guy friends. She's going on vacation soon so I guess this dude wanted to say goodbye for the moment.

She hangs up phone and takes out lipstick from bag and goes to the bathroom. Comes out with her lips ruby red. I'm not exactly sure where this guy stands but it bothers me that she would do that right in front of me. What do you guys think? Am I overreacting because girls just like to do **** like that?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GotED?

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First of all, a woman totally into you would never pick up her phone on a date. Or even allow you to perceive that there are other men in her life who may be misconstrued by you that she is unqualified for you. A woman into you 100% would not jeopardize that misconception on a date.

You really need to assess what else happened on the date. Did she make an effort to touch you? Did she offer self disclosure of private info about her other than small talk? Was there a level of increased sharing of intimate discussion about personal thoughts? Did she leave subtle trails of liking something of you or complimenting you?

It takes huge amount of awareness on a date to pick up these cues, and nothing short of real experiences.

This is for a date planned ahead and scheduled, not some friendly unscheduled meetup.


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Cremasta

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Nickface said:
She hangs up phone and takes out lipstick from bag and goes to the bathroom. Comes out with her lips ruby red. I'm not exactly sure where this guy stands but it bothers me that she would do that right in front of me. What do you guys think? Am I overreacting because girls just like to do **** like that?
Nick! She was with you. She was putting on the lipstick for you! It was an invitation for you to go home with lipstick on your dyck!

If she's a plate, then you should have complimented her on how sexy it looks, then immediately busted her for trying to get you turned on while eating dinner.

You were there... in hindsight, do you think it was disrespect or an opportunity she was giving you?
 
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