"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mvp21

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theres this girl i like but i think she is putting me in the friend catergory today she comes up to me tellin me bout her bf blowin her off and how she wants to br4eak up with him for this other guy. how can i get it out of the friend catergory an into to the boyfriend catergory?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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undesputable

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there should be a dating FAQ and this question should be on there. search around youll find the answer, and by searching yoll probably find other bits of importat info
 

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first of all don't take any of that bull****.

You are putting yourself in the friend category by listening to her stories about other guys.

Here's what you should have done. When she asks your opinion or tells you about other guys you tell her that you don't care about those other guys, and that you should meet her sometime for dinner, and give her your number.
 

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^^

That's good advice. That's what you would know to do if you even read the DJ Bible AT ALL. There is a whole SECTION about this.

However, the above advice will only work if you have game- does she love to be around you, do you make her laugh, are you ****y and funny?

If not, you need to read the DJ Bible, develop these skills, and implement the technique outlined in another part of the Bible for leaving the Friend Zone, in which you are firmly entrenched.
 

mvp21

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yea i am defintely puttin the ****y funny on her i constanly bust her balls an make her laugh
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jerky Boi

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If she's already placed you into the friend's zone, it's going to be hard to come out, although it's not necessarily impossible, you need to be patient. You don't want to be rude when she tries to talk to you about other guys, I mean how can you blame her, you're just a friend to her right now?


But when she does do things like that, you need to kinda just act like you don't care and give her some one word answers and things should turn out fine in your favor.
 
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