"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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theres this girl i like but i think she is putting me in the friend catergory today she comes up to me tellin me bout her bf blowin her off and how she wants to br4eak up with him for this other guy. how can i get it out of the friend catergory an into to the boyfriend catergory?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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there should be a dating FAQ and this question should be on there. search around youll find the answer, and by searching yoll probably find other bits of importat info
 
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first of all don't take any of that bull****.

You are putting yourself in the friend category by listening to her stories about other guys.

Here's what you should have done. When she asks your opinion or tells you about other guys you tell her that you don't care about those other guys, and that you should meet her sometime for dinner, and give her your number.
 
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^^

That's good advice. That's what you would know to do if you even read the DJ Bible AT ALL. There is a whole SECTION about this.

However, the above advice will only work if you have game- does she love to be around you, do you make her laugh, are you ****y and funny?

If not, you need to read the DJ Bible, develop these skills, and implement the technique outlined in another part of the Bible for leaving the Friend Zone, in which you are firmly entrenched.
 
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yea i am defintely puttin the ****y funny on her i constanly bust her balls an make her laugh
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If she's already placed you into the friend's zone, it's going to be hard to come out, although it's not necessarily impossible, you need to be patient. You don't want to be rude when she tries to talk to you about other guys, I mean how can you blame her, you're just a friend to her right now?


But when she does do things like that, you need to kinda just act like you don't care and give her some one word answers and things should turn out fine in your favor.
 
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