"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So I met this chick online, actually she's the one that contacted me so we talked via email and I got her number. We talked online the next day so far everything is good. I text her the next day seeing if she wanna hang out she says she does so her and her friend come over we hang out in my basement, watch a movie, watch some t.v. everything is good so far she seems really nice got some kino going on holding hands end of night hug so i call her up tonight to see whats going on and she was drinking at her sister in laws so her sister in law invites me over it was o.k. but i didn't talk much cuz first of all im really really shy, i mean really shy. most of the time i dont talk. prefer not to actually. why waste your breath but anyways it was pretty uneventful we just played some video games and watched some mtv then decided it was getting late so i walked her to her car got a hug then went for the kiss but she wasnt feeling it so i kissed her on her cheek. do you think this girl likes me or has high interest in me? i consider myself pretty good looking so that may be one thing shes attracted to. can u guys give me some tips about overcoming shyness im not afraid to approach girls just get stuck in conversation after a few min. especialy on the phone i never really know what to talk about. what are some good topics to discuss. next time i wanna hang out alone with her to find out what shes all about if i go in for the kiss again and she rejects what should i do. find another girl. any and all feedback appreciated
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i really like this girl and i havent gotten any for a while should i call her today. plzzzzz any responses?
 
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well she told me to call her today so she must have some interest right? is this still salvagable? btw im not looking for a relationship just a one nighter but shes looking for ltr
 
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girlgimmethat said:
well she told me to call her today so she must have some interest right? is this still salvagable? btw im not looking for a relationship just a one nighter but shes looking for ltr
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Hurry up and make a big move to F cause your time is running out fast... most women are not this patient...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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should i ask her out again tonight on a date when we hang out its always wit somebody else where can i take her where we can have a good time and get to know each other better?
 
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