"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl prob :(

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So I met this chick online, actually she's the one that contacted me so we talked via email and I got her number. We talked online the next day so far everything is good. I text her the next day seeing if she wanna hang out she says she does so her and her friend come over we hang out in my basement, watch a movie, watch some t.v. everything is good so far she seems really nice got some kino going on holding hands end of night hug so i call her up tonight to see whats going on and she was drinking at her sister in laws so her sister in law invites me over it was o.k. but i didn't talk much cuz first of all im really really shy, i mean really shy. most of the time i dont talk. prefer not to actually. why waste your breath but anyways it was pretty uneventful we just played some video games and watched some mtv then decided it was getting late so i walked her to her car got a hug then went for the kiss but she wasnt feeling it so i kissed her on her cheek. do you think this girl likes me or has high interest in me? i consider myself pretty good looking so that may be one thing shes attracted to. can u guys give me some tips about overcoming shyness im not afraid to approach girls just get stuck in conversation after a few min. especialy on the phone i never really know what to talk about. what are some good topics to discuss. next time i wanna hang out alone with her to find out what shes all about if i go in for the kiss again and she rejects what should i do. find another girl. any and all feedback appreciated
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BUMP

i really like this girl and i havent gotten any for a while should i call her today. plzzzzz any responses?
 

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well she told me to call her today so she must have some interest right? is this still salvagable? btw im not looking for a relationship just a one nighter but shes looking for ltr
 

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girlgimmethat said:
well she told me to call her today so she must have some interest right? is this still salvagable? btw im not looking for a relationship just a one nighter but shes looking for ltr
Hurry up and make a big move to F cause your time is running out fast... most women are not this patient...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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should i ask her out again tonight on a date when we hang out its always wit somebody else where can i take her where we can have a good time and get to know each other better?
 
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