"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl prob :(

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So I met this chick online, actually she's the one that contacted me so we talked via email and I got her number. We talked online the next day so far everything is good. I text her the next day seeing if she wanna hang out she says she does so her and her friend come over we hang out in my basement, watch a movie, watch some t.v. everything is good so far she seems really nice got some kino going on holding hands end of night hug so i call her up tonight to see whats going on and she was drinking at her sister in laws so her sister in law invites me over it was o.k. but i didn't talk much cuz first of all im really really shy, i mean really shy. most of the time i dont talk. prefer not to actually. why waste your breath but anyways it was pretty uneventful we just played some video games and watched some mtv then decided it was getting late so i walked her to her car got a hug then went for the kiss but she wasnt feeling it so i kissed her on her cheek. do you think this girl likes me or has high interest in me? i consider myself pretty good looking so that may be one thing shes attracted to. can u guys give me some tips about overcoming shyness im not afraid to approach girls just get stuck in conversation after a few min. especialy on the phone i never really know what to talk about. what are some good topics to discuss. next time i wanna hang out alone with her to find out what shes all about if i go in for the kiss again and she rejects what should i do. find another girl. any and all feedback appreciated
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BUMP

i really like this girl and i havent gotten any for a while should i call her today. plzzzzz any responses?
 
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well she told me to call her today so she must have some interest right? is this still salvagable? btw im not looking for a relationship just a one nighter but shes looking for ltr
 
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girlgimmethat said:
well she told me to call her today so she must have some interest right? is this still salvagable? btw im not looking for a relationship just a one nighter but shes looking for ltr
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Hurry up and make a big move to F cause your time is running out fast... most women are not this patient...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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should i ask her out again tonight on a date when we hang out its always wit somebody else where can i take her where we can have a good time and get to know each other better?
 
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